Conception

[Rise87]

I had sex with my ex on June 10th and 11th then me and my boyfriend made up and had sex on June 12th and June15th. I found out I was pregnant on June 29th and they said my HGC level was 65. My last period was June 1st also when me and my boyfriend had sex on that day. I need to know who is the father of my unborn baby. :(

[babybumpz413]

Hey There,

Im in a similar situation Please help,

I had intercourse with my x on the 10-11th of Jan and my current on the 23-24 January - My due date is the 16 October. Who is the dad?

[dani0521]

I don't think YOU know how it works.  I got pregnant before when my husband pulled out every time because we were trying to avoid getting pregnant at that time.

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
If you were my patient, I would advise you that you are going to need a DNA test.  Your dates are way to close for any other option.  The daddy could be either man.
Good  luck!
Dr B

[Rise87]

Its not a mess really if you know anything about how it works then maybe you will know. I posted this before my docs appointment so no longer need the comments. Thanks

[Monita13]

The dates are too close i would get a dna test

[pckpiii]

Precum cn get u pregnant. Sperm cn live in u for 48-72 hours after intercourse. I agree u will need a DNA. Unless ur lucky enough tht the baby looks like ur bf at birth. Good luck girl.

[EmmalynsMommy]

There is no way to know. Those days are easy too close together. DNA test when your baby comes. Just be honest with your boyfriend

[pepita798]

You still need DNA test. I work at an ob/gyn office. The sperm can live in the body for up to 5 days so your ex boyfriend could still be the father. Also not every women ovulates according to the standard chart. You can only rely on the standard chart if your periods are always 28 days. The conception date is usually an estimate for most women if they don't have a standard cycle. You really need  a DNA test

[wojooood66]

It is a mess

[KainCyrusmommy]

Sperm can live anywhere from 1-5 days. Your baby could have been conceived from the sperm from any one of those dates you posted. It's 50/50. A DNA test would be the only way to know for sure.

[GiuliaJ]

only time will tell. You will need to wait to test (paternity) once the baby will be born. In the meanwhile, don't worry. From the info you provided, it looks like your actual boyfriend is the dad.
June 1st was also the first day of my last period. I guess we have the same due date!!! :)

[tutewidobaby]

Get a dna test

[Rise87]

My doctor said its my bf im fine if my ex doesnt didnt *** in me and we had sex on the 11th and I ovulated on the 15th and thats the day she said i conceived and me and my bf had sex on that day and after ;) thanks guys ;)

[melissaleedy0404]

The sperm from the precum from your ex can hangout a few days. It can be either of them. Get a paternity test.

[robsangel13]

I would still run a dna test after the baby is here. U wouldn't want ur bf to resent u in a few yrs looking at the child saying it doesn't look like him then the baby finds out. Its just a mess.

[Rise87]

My last period was June1 and me and my boyfriend did it then on this date. I conceived on June 15th and me and my boyfriend had sex on June 16th too. Oh and pulls out and ejaculate in his hard then cums in his hand

[Rise87]

Thanks Mrswearrien....I had sex on June16th too with my boyfriend

[bstommel2]

When did ur last period begin and do you know when you ovulated? You can still become pregnant even if ur ex pulled out bc everytime the penis ejaculates a little bit of sperm which is known as precum

[mrswearrien]

Actually you and I are exactly the same, my least cycle was June 1st also...I had sex on June 14th and conception was June 15th...my due date according to my last cycle is march 8th so you should b the same...the one you were with on the 15th is the father...that or the 16th should b your conception date...my Dr is a really good Dr, he explains everything to me in detail and I trust what he says so you should b ok :)

[luvzmybabys]

there's no way too tell unless you get a paternaty test

[Rise87]

Oh and i ovulated on the 15th of June looking for a  doctor response

[Rise87]

My Bf we have unprotected and me and my Ex he pulled out

[Sarah765]

It is way too close to say for sure, youll have to get a dna test when baby comes.