Both me and my partner have Aspergers, my partner walked away from an abusive relationship with his very controlling father a year ago, his dad had him convinced he was not capable of anything, and he would amount to nothing, because he had aspergers and his dad used his disability to milk benefits for all he could.
Since walking away he has shown people he is far more capable then his dad made out and now we are married and have a beautiful house and he has taken on my 14 nieces and nephews as his own, and they all love him. He is so natural with them, even his social worker has said he will make a great dad.
But now he is going to be a dad, he is so frightened of messing up and having his dad come back and say "I told you so", people are trying to reassure him but that worry will always be there after what he went through.
Can anyone give me some advise about how to help him feel that little bit more confident.