Debating?!?!

Question

Well me and the boyfriend were talking last night and it wasn't really arguing but I'm 24w 1d and he said our son is gonna be a city/country boy and for some reason I didn't like the idea idky I said no our son isnt gonna be a country boy he's gonna be taught how to be a gentleman and treat ladies and other people with respect and he calms he can still teach our son that but he's gonna be a country/city boy... is it really that good of an idea??

Eagle11 · Answer

The last thing he said was like father like son my bf is very respectful and actually knows how to treat people so I just hope he's like his dad when he grows up

Bree_ItsABoy · Answer

You'll quickly realize that your child will be who he is regardless of what you guys want him to be.. You can't make a person be someone they aren't lol.

showard022 · Answer

I think in a guys head he's just thinking of the way he's going to be dressed and music he wants around him , keeping him more out dorsy. My son is that way. My husband just didn't want him to get the thug life personality because allot of the kids in are family have gotten that way. My son is a total gentlemen, never fights with anyone besides bickering with me lol, and he's awesome. While other kids sit in the house watching TV he'd much rather go for a few mile walk.

feg90 · Answer

If my baby is a boy I would love for my baby to be just like daddy! He's a country man, an he's a very respectful man! My husband comes from a ranch, where they always had a hard time getting what they needed, and he even saw his mother being abused by the dad, everything he saw made him realized that he didn't want to be like him! The mother taught him real good manners! Fortunately the dad realized all he was doing and decided to change for good! And till now he has been a real good husband to her and a very good father and grandpa to their grandkids!

pandamomnium · Answer

Your baby is gonna have his own personality. You cant really control it. No matter what hes into just teach him respect and manners. Simple as that.

Mreeah · Answer

You dont have to limit yourselves to anything. The child can be taught to be a city/country boy who knows how to be a gentlemen and treats everyone with respect and who knows how to be a leader and not a follower. Idk just something random. Lol but i dont think you guys should limit what he can and cannot be

usernameistaken55 · Answer

Lol...lol. the country or city doesnt have anything to do with his manners or attitude. If he loves the country he will. Hey may love the city. But that wont define him. How he acts will.

knufrio · Answer

What's wrong with being a country boy? Personally I find "country boys" tend to be more respectful to their women and more well mannered than most, they usually are taught to be gentleman.