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Feeling sad, . .

Throughout this whole pregnancy ive been feeling so alone. I dont have any family, just my boyfriend &his family. My bf & I have our own place. Lately ive been feeling so alone, unwanted, unloved & just a mix of emotions. The argueing doesnt help. He has to work but when he comes home, he sits on his phone & barely seems to show me attention. i feel like im just there. he says im overreacting /: Am i? its gotten to the point i cry & feel depressed. I feel so unwanted & unloved that ive thought about just leaving. ): any advice?

btw im due December 30th
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. I went through much of the same thing until I realised he use to work the same hours b4 I became pregnant and did the same thing so I realised I was being hormonal. Itz totally normal emotions. Men unfortunately cant understand and its hard for them too. They are also going through their own fears but they dont show and deal with it outside of the home
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same thing with my boyfriend. hell tend to give me the wrong obnoxious attention when i am sick (vomitting) & aching in pain. they dont.understand what we go through! but thanks . i would love to be friends. do you have a kik, or instagram?
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I am in the same boat but we live together. He tries to give me attention to but not the attention that I need. He is always on his phone or playing video games. Seems that his friend gets the attention as he seems to have a better time with them and not me. I'm in need of friends as well. I'm here if u need me.
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6430881 tn?1385405084
Friends do tend to disappear.. especially during relationships and pregnancy. But that just proves they weren't real friends in the first place
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i feel the same way! like he doesnt love me the same too! & awee im sure they're looking down. but thank you do you have an instagram or facebook? or kik?
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Im in the same situation as you but we live with his fam somtimes i feel like he wants to stay here forever but he says he dont its me him and my two kids n dog in the same same small *** room and now we have a baby on the way in just a few weeks im 34 weeks btw and im suppost to be on bed rest im already 4 cm almost 5 but i feel very overwelmed and i dont feel the same love he once showed me i hope iy changes im here if u ever needa talk ik what its like not to have anyone i miss my fam so much its hard not to have them around anymore and them not see my kids i just hope there looking down on them  
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thanks alot.
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I have felt that way as well and this isn't my first timeif you need anyone to talk to feel free to messege me
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I have felt that way as well and this isn't my first timeif you need anyone to talk to feel free to messege me
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kinda drives me crazy! all my friends dissappeared like houdini. i need new ones & thank you.
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6430881 tn?1385405084
I have the exact same feelings! And i don't think we overreact i just don't think they're realize how much were dealing with.. but if you need someone to talk to I'm free :)
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