OPINIONS/COMMENTS!

[emw11]

okay ive been ttc with my partner since about april..still no luck. i was using my days app being overly obsessive about the whole thing and stressing out because weve wanted a child so bad but for the past 2 months i quit worrying about it all because ive heard if you try that hard that stress will make it harder and what not. I dont know when my period will come its so irregular. I think it will probably come around oct 3. but this month ive felt sicker then ever. Like extreme headaches for two weeks. and nasuea occasionally i dont want to assume im pregnant because ive done that and then got my hopes up for no reason just to find out i was late for some reason. Im hoping this month will be my month thatd be great. but what should i do to try and help me get pregnant? is it true if i over obsess about it that it will make it harder. I did have a cyst rupture in june and the doctor told me it would probably take 2 to 3 months for everything to heal up so maybe thats why its hard for me to get pregnant. but i just dont know what to do its taking forever and im starting to get irritated! any comments or stories would be so helpful.

[amandamae1126]

Joy is right. Also, it doesn't hurt to see a dr for irregular periods to see what is causing that. And there could be other things interfering. After changing diet and taking vitamins (me and hubby) we were able to concieve, but it was ectopic. A hsg test was able to make the tubes a free flowing highway! We concieved that month too and we are now a bit over 8 weeks pregnant! Try diet, vitamins, a health consult, and a TON of prayer! :)

[JoyRenee]

To increase your chances to conceive you should have sex before or during ovulation. There are some natural ways to boost fertility; mainly watching your diet, exercising, increasing your water consumption and decreasing caffeine. Also quitting smoking, drugs and drinking alcohol (both you AND your partner) should help your odds.

[emw11]

Well last night i vomited after eating cucumbers of all things! i kept thinking to myself my god i must be pregnant because cucumbers is something i eat all the time and i love them!! im glad were in the same boat :] best of luck to you!!

[lissie01]

MEE TOO!!! im in the same position as u both! last mnth i got veins all over my body!! boobs swelled nausea, Its still going on even though i got my periods! im sorry EMW11, I cant help you cause i dnt even know what to do myself but i do hope we are all BFP this month my periods are irregular too and the OPK didnt wrk this mnth so i dnt even know if i O'd. but im due about the 3rd aswell and OH MY LORD my boobs are killing me!!!!  Me AND DF have been trying for 9mnths, so it has to happen soon! :) Im so glad I have found two people that r in the same situation! !! god bless and good luck

[emw11]

yes! i used to make sure that we would have sex when i used the my days app when it said i was ovulating but there was no luck there. i got rid of the app and just decided to let it happen when it does even though the waiting is impatient. i too also freak at any twinge i was sure last month i was though because i thought i had so samy symptoms and symptoms that my friends had gotten when they were pregnant but then of course my period showed up a week late. im sorta hoping this month i might be. i dont show any symptoms except ive had pains on my right side that are sharp pinching/pulling pains and a headache for two weeks on and off almost everyday. it gets so frustrating! i know how you feel though its a let down everytime my period is supposed to show then it eventually does and it doesnt help at all since my periods never come regularly so i cant really plan it out very well. im just going to keep my hopes up and when it happens it does. i dont know what else to do! i hate itttt!!!

[Boricuamorena2010]

We are in the same boat! I swear that when my period came last month that it was a mistake. I had every symptom in the book. Trying so hard produces feelings and hallucinations in me I didn't know my body was talented enough to produce...kinda *****. I had a miscarriage in Dec 09 and since then, any twitch makes me nervous. I can totally sympathize with you on this as I have these symptoms again and I tested BFN this morning...It is early for me though as I am irregular too and I normally don't test positive until late, around 6-8 weeks on a HPT. I have been so nervous every month...I will test agin Thursday as it will be 9DPO. We will see...only advice is to keep going to the Dr. I also use MyDays App, It helped me conceive before, Oct. 09...I believe that it is good if you are regular, which I am not...but also I start sexing a week before during and after ovulation. So tired, I am sure you can identify!