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Heartbroken

So I posted a question earlier on here about no heartbeat at 11 weeks. A couple of the girls asked me to keep them updated so here it goes.
I went to my ultrasound today and the nurse started the process. I was excited, because I was going to see my baby again for the second time since 6 weeks. I was wrong. A black blob. The sac was there. It was a black hole. Nothing was there.
I could feel my heart sink as I asked the nurse is everything okay? She told me that it was bad news and I knew what she meant. I miscarried 5 weeks ago when I was 6 weeks. I feel so empty. My little baby is gone. The love of my life who was attached to me just....vanished.
There was no bleeding. Nothing. I was having discharge so I thought that was normal. I wish if this had to be the way that I would've bled. So I could've respectfully laid my baby to rest. I know I wasnt that far along but I was so attached to what was growing inside of me.
I just don't know what to do. I'm broken
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I am so sorry for your loss. Exact thing happened to me. To a tee. Found out at 11wks I miscarried at 6 weeks. But dont be discouraged. I know it hurts now. But life does go on and I am now 35 wks pregnant with a baby girl. You will have your little one. Even though it hurts now. There was a reason. Just have hope and faith.
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So sad, really hope things work out for you in the future. Take your time. I hope you have a lot of support. X
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My prayers go to you and your baby:/ it made me want to cry as i was reading your story:/ im so sorry, i can't say i know what your going through cause i don't.. but i know its easier said then done but keep your head up high and stay strong..
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honey, I'm so sorry for your loss, i know how you feel 100%, and it for sure one of the worst feeling ever but don't give up, i know how you feel, i misscarried at 7 weeks back in October, the same way; no signs.. but i am now 25 weeks with a boy :) just know God is on your side, and he only sends you down the paths that he will guide us out of safely. God bless you :)
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7585726 tn?1397871765
I can't stand to read these heartbroken posts. It jus makes me sad & think of such negative things abt my baby :(. Am so sorry for your loss have my deepest sympathy & i hope you havve someonr at home to encourage yu to stay positive <3
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7414320 tn?1391692496
Omg i feel for you soo much im soo sorry to hear that i wouldn't no wat to do either your in my prayers girl just keep your head up<3
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7172456 tn?1403092946
I'm so sorry for your loss :( I can't even imagine how you feel right now.. Sending you lots of big hugs xxxx
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7157499 tn?1411821385
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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8653684 tn?1399350052
Very sorry for your loss hun..keep your head up take your time to grieve and just know life will still go on for you as its meant to be..take care hun and best of luck to you!!!!
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Awe im sorry hun:(
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Thank you all, I guess this is the last time in a long while that I'll be using this app, so I guess this'll be my goodbye post haha. /:
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Im so sorry . My heart breaks for you stay strong
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I'm sorry for your loss =(
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Im so sorry for your loss :( how heart breaking. Sending lots of hugs xxx
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So sorry for your loss...
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7773990 tn?1400728625
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how ur feeling. Take some time for u and don't let anyone make u feel like u should just move on.
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I'm so sorry about your loss.
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I'm so sorry about your loss.
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7381903 tn?1391464888
Awwwwww poor thing. Ughhh that's terrible !, :/
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:( sorry about your lost.
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