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Hello

My name is Huma and im 31 years old.I am trying to conieve again but im not that successful nowadays.I dont know where to begin....Well, the thing is that i was pregnant last year and unfortunately due to some circumstances i had to have an abortion.now i am regretting what i have done and its painful.now i have been trying 4 months to concieve again but no success.I have a child already and he is 3 now.I dont know what seems to be the problem even though i use to have such easy pregnancies.Recently, something happened which was quite odd for me which was that i was in some kind of tense situation and because of that i noticed i had pinkish spots.This was 2 or 3 months ago and this thing with me happened twice when i was upset about a situation.I want to make sure i am alright and this doesnt have anything to do with the abortion that i had in may last yr.Please help me out.Also i want to let u know that the pass 2 months i have been having irregular periods which strted 10 days before regular date.But i took viatmins and now this month in january i have started regular again.which means 2 days b4 the regular date.please tell me whats going on.I want to be pregnant again.I was weeping 2day when i started my period again this month.I was hoping for a positive sign.Please help me!!!!
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I am sorry for your sadness. I also had difficulty getting pregnant after the birth of my son and went through a time when I had almost no bleeding, just spotting some months. After vitamins my period seemed to come back but was much different, lighter. I read the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" and got pregnant the first month using the methods in the book. It teaches you to chart and understand your cycles (maybe your body is just readjusting hormonally). Don't give up. If too much time goes by, you may want to see a fertility specialist who can rule out any physical problems. Try this book first! Good Luck!
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320224 tn?1201884106
stress is a big factor so when you do concieve don't let anything or any make you upset.
good luck trying to concive
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305005 tn?1358728290
i can not tell you that  the abortions causing  the probs, but i can tell you that sometimes it just takes time. a healthy person only has a very small chance of getting preg each month. with your periods being irrgular could mean your ovulating irregular. try start charting your cycles and cm to try to figure out when your ovulating and just keep trying. good luck
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