they dont routinely test for herpes in australia when your pregnant, its usually hiv, clomida and hep b and c, so if your at all worried go and get a blood test as pp have said the virus can lay dormant in your body for years and you can actually be a carrier of the virus without actually having an outbreak, if you have had chicken pox or have the herpes virus you can get shingles, basically its the same virus but in a different for, singles usually follows the nerves and then you have symptoms at the nerve endings and an outbreak of shingles can last for a long time veruses herpes when an outbreak is usually over within 2 weeks :)
I dont want to sound like a ***** but it sounds like ur man cheated got herpes and now is tryingtto.get u to think u have it.
Exactly. Ur doc in the begining when they do the blood tests they test for any and all std and stis like the other girl so if u have it now hes cheated.
I wouldn't worry. Just get tested.
They automatically test for any and all STD and STIs when they draw blood in the beginning of your pregnancy so they know how to handle your treatment if you have anything. They would have told you if you had herpes so if you do, he cheated on you and you caught it after you got pregnant. Herpes can be spread by even drinking after someone with it if they have an outbreak on their mouth. My dad has it so I did a lot of research for him so he could keep his gf from catching it.
Thanks girls !! Ill get a bloodtest done just to be sure, even though i pass out every time i get a needle bleh -.- thanks everyone !