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4194487 tn?1370046144

Herpes help ??!!

Ok so my ex thinks i have herpes, because his doc told him he suspects he has herpes. I am sooooo frustrated because for one he hasnt even got the results and he is trying to tell me that herpes turns into shingles, herpes can go to your brain and kill you. Now i am soo frustrated because i told him 1. Shingles and herpes are two different things. 2. I have not had any 'outbreak' of blisters at all, ever around my vagina or mouth..
He thinks the dermatitis i have (which has been diagnosed as dermatitis) on my hands is herpes. And hes trying to tell me, the little bumps on my nipples are herpes. Which i know, and i have read before that the little bumps on the areola are caused by pregnancy changes. Now can someone tell me if i am wrong? He gets ingrown hairs everyday because he is just a hairy boy, and i know this is probably just another ingrown. And hes tryna tell me hes 100% sure i have herpes. I got sooooo frustrated i cracked and started crying turned my phone off and deleted facebook, can someone tell me about herpes, how am i supposed to get checked up on herpes if i dont have any blisters or sores? I got my blood tests done when i found out i was pregnant and i am clean. I just want to shoot myself im so frustrated
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1806883 tn?1458321004
they dont routinely test for herpes in australia when your pregnant, its usually hiv, clomida and hep b and c, so if your at all worried go and get a blood test as pp have said the virus can lay dormant in your body for years and you can actually be a carrier of the virus without actually having an outbreak, if you have had chicken pox or have the herpes virus you can get shingles, basically its the same virus but in a different for, singles usually follows the nerves and then you have symptoms at the nerve endings and an outbreak of shingles can last for a long time veruses herpes when an outbreak is usually over within 2 weeks :)
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4287262 tn?1358999012
I dont want to sound like a ***** but it sounds like ur man cheated got herpes and now is tryingtto.get u to think u have it.
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3185867 tn?1348434443
Exactly. Ur doc in the begining when they do the blood tests they test for any and all std and stis like the other girl so if u have it now hes cheated.
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I wouldn't worry. Just get tested.
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4372583 tn?1358902146
They automatically test for any and all STD and STIs when they draw blood in the beginning of your pregnancy so they know how to handle your treatment if you have anything. They would have told you if you had herpes so if you do, he cheated on you and you caught it after you got pregnant. Herpes can be spread by even drinking after someone with it if they have an outbreak on their mouth. My dad has it so I did a lot of research for him so he could keep his gf from catching it.
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4194487 tn?1370046144
Thanks girls !! Ill get a bloodtest done just to be sure, even though i pass out every time i get a needle bleh -.- thanks everyone !
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