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4852917 tn?1386378680

I feel horrible.

Does anyone else ever feel like they did everything wrong during pregnancy? Like stress, lift things, cry too much, eat too much or too less etc? I feel like this all the time and it really worries me. I feel like I just fail at being pregnant and I know it sounds silly but I do. I also get very paranoid that my baby is going to have a lot of birth defects just cause I didn't do something right. I am scared. I feel like a horrible person. I know I could have done somethings better. Am I the only one?
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4852917 tn?1386378680
I feel the same way. Like all my friends and stuff annoy me ! and all i want to do is lay around and watch tv .
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Me too... I get paranoid about me 3 year old more than the one inside me. Worry I'm not a good mom I think she is miserable and has a terrible life and I'm a failure.  And I wanna leave me house away from my husband and live with my mom because he won't keep up with his house chores. Lol like I'm going to a whole other city because I need a break from him, and I can't be around people! Everyone gets on my ******* nerves! I have become very introverted and have put all my energy into my 3year old.she is the only person o want to be around. I only really want to go to my mom's because she will spoil me. Lol my man works to much and is kinda slow at picking on that I need help and need to be a little spoiled. And my Communication skill have vaporized and no longer exist so I think ima give himself little break from my craziness and make my mom have to deal with my hormones for a little while. Lol she is women she will understand more anyway and listen to me be whiny. And I'm only 10 weeks...I was not this crazy with my first. It's gonna be a he'll of a pregnancy.  Lol
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5601615 tn?1383450616
I feel the same way I thought it was just me!!
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4852917 tn?1386378680
Yeah you are probably right
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Honey i think it comes along with pregnancy lol. i feel like i eat, yell, cry, sleep and even shower too much. i tell my fiance i feel like i cant do anything right and truth be told im sure were all thinking we dont do anything right or do too much and in reality were really not lol. blame it on the hormones.
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4852917 tn?1386378680
Thanks guys. I can't help but worry. I feel nothing I do is right
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Girl u just need relax if the docters tell u that ure test like blood, urine n exct.. looks good then go from there i knoe how u feel but as long as ure taking ure prenatals n taking care of ureself ure baby will take whatever he /she needs from ure body.
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And now with the ones i have i am constantly worrying that they will be bad teenagers, am i raising them right, do i buy them enough or too much. It is a never ending worry. It just means you are a true momma
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Don't worry, nobody want to answer my question on helping my cramping. But anyways you aren't the only one. I am constantly worrying, and this is my third. It's not as bad as it was with my first but it's still there.
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I did alllll those and my baby is perfectly fine
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4852917 tn?1386378680
guess not
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