I'M CONFUSED! PLEASE HELP.

Question

I have a boyfriend for 2 years, we had sex regularly but never got pregnant. I am not sure if he's taking notes of my fertile period. Dec 21 I had a one night stand affair with another and made sex but he pulled it out before he ejaculated. After few hours, my period came. I still had sex with my boyfriend after my period which is within Dec 27-Jan 2. He left Jan 3 to a business meeting. Based on his calculation, my ovulation day is january 4 and he was not with me until january 14. I was supposed to have my period on january 18-21 but it did not come. i waited for another 2 weeks and nothing came yet so I took a preganancy test and it came out positive. I Had an ultrasound on Feb 18 and the result is I am pregnant for 8 weeks and 6 days. I am now confused who is the father of my baby. Please enlighten me.

confused_lady04 · Answer

Thanks for your time and effort by the way.

confused_lady04 · Answer

you're right, my period started on that same day too, just few hours after the intercourse. *sigh! i hope it's my boyfriend's. by the way, my boyfriend is 62 years old already and i'm 32, do you think that would change your analysis?

Angebelle · Answer

For my clarification, you had intercourse with the other man on Dec. 21 and that same day/night you started your period? If that's the case, ovulation wouldn't have occurred, thus fertilization  wouldn't have occurred with the other man.  Based on your cycle start date of Dec. 21, you very well could've ovulated as early as Jan. 2. But another thing to consider is sperm can survive within a woman's uterus for up to five days. So it's very possible that your egg was fertilized while he was off to his business trip. I sincerely believe your boyfriend is the father. Hope this helps.