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I'm 29 weeks pregnant and my fiancé cheated

I just found out 2 weeks ago that he's been talking to another girl and even made plans to bring her to our home while I was away for a weekend at my parents. The other women was the one who told me everything and she showed me all the message and we made plans for the next weekend to actually catch him with her but I couldn't keep it to myself. I told him I knew everything and he didn't deny it. I want to leave so bad but have no where to go and I have mixed feelings about the entire situation but he's acting ridiculously nice to me and I know it's because of the guilt he feels... I feel like dying... I don't know how to handle this..
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1908867 tn?1403757261
You dont need that right now, and i know how u feel when you say you wish you could die, but thats the easy way out. Be strong mama for you and your baby. That precious lil person in there is sooo much worth than he will ever be. Ive been a loner all my life so i know that thinking of dying or any suicidal thoughts might be the first thing in mind. But thats just a face you will pass today tomorrow is another day remember after the storm there is a rainbow. Take it day by day and promise yourself you will fight for your babys health and yours. Just forget about him, and yes ignore him if you have no place to go, he will be regreting every moment of what he is doing or did.
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& don't stress out over this! Its really bad for your baby & iknow you don't want that! Just think of the only thing you need in your life. Your baby♡ Youll find someone better later on in life (:
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Go to your parents house girl or family members! You don't need that in your life! Thats one thing I hate a CHEATER! !! & he sure wasnt thinking of your baby when he was with that other girl! Just get your stuff together & your life straight so once your baby comes out you leave hiss ***! You don't need him! & yes like she said ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!! Goodluck girl (:
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9309926 tn?1405447056
If you can't go to your parents for whatever reason see if maybe you can get a hotel for a week or go to a friends house. Sorry he did that. Wish you the best
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Take a break and go stay with your parents for a couple weeks. Have no contact with him and see what he does. If he fights for you, maybe. If he doesn't, he wasn't worth it. Plus I truly believe once a cheater always a cheater.
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9525685 tn?1410800512
The stress is not worth your unborn child's health
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9525685 tn?1410800512
If you have nowhere to go he knows that ignore the hell out of him it hurts them more than anything when he ask you something write your response on a piece of paper and save money too get out
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