Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

I'm I over thinking it?

Me and my " Baby Daddy " are together.  And it's like everytime his mom introduces me to one of his family members it's this is Jayjays Babymama. Or his family will say where's your babymama when they call. Or if they ask who he's with its " I'm with my baby mama " I'm even saved in his phone as BM. Like really ppl to me I'm much more than his " BABY MAMA " we are actually together and to me a girl friend and baby mama roles are different. I do way more for him than just a " BM " it's like why can't u say I'm with my girl? I HATE the words Babymama so maybe that's why I'm upset. It really makes me angry though. I'm I over reacting. Is that all I am too you ? I'm not worthy or being introduced as your girl/ girlfriend?
2 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
I totally understand except on my end I went from "Buck Old Lady" to "Buck Baby Momma" and I will let them know uummm excuse me I have a name I am my own person. I hate being called Old Lady or Baby Momma address me by my name or I have no words for you.
Helpful - 0
9515116 tn?1409079199
I had the same problem with mine i had to stop that asap cuz soon as i got pregnant it was always im hanging with my bm or me & my bm finna go out i was like im your girlfriend before a bby i will be your girlfriend afta so address me as such...you not overreacting
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy Community

Top Pregnancy Answerers
13167 tn?1327194124
Austin, TX
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.