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I'm 18 with 2 jobs and graduated highschool early I'm pregnant but I don't have my own place . I'm working on it ! I just thought I would be pregnant in my own place .

My mother is very strict on morals , she told me once she had a dream I was pregnant and she told me she didn't know what to do but for me to get an abortion. I haven't told her I'm pregnant yet because I'm scared I mite get the reaction she gave me in her dream .

How should I come about my pregnancy to my mom ?
What if she tells me to abort am I old enough to say no , even if I'm still under her roof ?
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Thanks for the advice it is so helpful I think I mite just do that
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Ok I'm going to give you some advice on how to tell her. Take her out to dinner just you and her (probably your baby father too if she met him). Look at her and "Mama, I'm coming to you as a woman and because I don't want to hide anything from you plus I value your advice and I want to share this special time in my life with you.....I'm pregnant"

No she can't make you get an abortion period. I just know the longer you wait to tell her the more betrayed she'll feel as honestly your mother might be the biggest supporter once she finds out.
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If you're worried about being kicked out talk to a close friend or maybe the babies father about getting a place together an d splitting the rent.I'm skiing that with a friend if mine because I refuse to raise my baby under my parents roof.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
It doesn't matter if your 12 or a hundred nobody can ever make your abort your baby. Its against the law. Your best bet is just to tell her she'll be upset but you probably won't get the bad reaction you're expecting.
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Nope. Cant make you do a thing about that. Congrats <3
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She cant make you abort YOUR BABY she is just goig to have to deal with it
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6692462 tn?1409257870
Your body, your baby!
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She cannot make you get an abortion.
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