I've never seen her like this?

[Badwomenizer]

Well, My girlfriend is 6 months pregnant, Usually she is so calm, and abit of a "coward" but 5 days ago, I came home late, and I was drinking abit, I can admit, I was drinking alot, back then, and coming home late alot aswell. Well, that time I was at work, and it was my Boss's birthday, and as a joke we got him a stripper, and well she was.. doing what she was payed to do, She did give all of us a lap dance, but nothing more. So i came home, and I was covered in her perfume, abd my girlfriend noticed, but I gave a..."wrong" answer . by saying "She didn't do that much" and She just got literally so ******* angry, and kicked me out? She never even gave me my stuff, for the past 4 days, Ive been living at my best mates. I went over this morning, and she looked so angry, it was scary, she is usually so happy, and soft. She started crying half way through me apologizing, I tried to hug her, but she slammed the door in my face.

what can I do? :( I love her and my unborn child with all my heart. Im 20, and she is 18

[Sundae254]

Wow yall are really bashing the poor guy its not that serious. He's 20 not 35... And I disagree strippers are not low lives, its they're way of making a living. Majority of them get paid more than what a person with an actual degree does.. just saying

[sbaby1212]

Use your head, the one above your waist....

[sbaby1212]

You lied, so how does she even know your apology is true? how does she know what you really even did there? common bud were insecure enough as it is already and your gonna pull some **** like that and lie about it! id be soooo heated.

[marajean21]

I agree with most of what's being said, but let's also point out you were honest. If she wants to be mad, she has every right, but don't get put down and try to lie your way out like some dumb men. She probably slammed the door in your face bc she was picturing a lot worse and just couldn't handle it. You can apologize and remind her how much you miss her and love her and tell her when she's ready to talk, you're right there waiting. After that, let her work the monsters out of her head. If she wants details, she will ask. You don't want to push her too much but also don't stop talking/texting completely so she begins to think you don't care. It was a dumb mistake, but you were honest and are trying to fix it. She should come around when she's not having her emotions scrambled up.

[faye83]

Omg you guys need to chill out. It's not like he slept with the stripper or had any kind of sexual contact. It was a birthday party with the guys! Y'all need to relax

OP, just give her some time. You probably already apologized right? just keep talking to her and explaining her the situation etc etc if you want bring third parties that were witness to such activities, etc etc

[cgirl83]

I would say you're a piece of sh*t for doing that to her. Apparantly you have some growing up to do. Shame on you. Strippers are disgusting low life's who aren't worth a damn to be able to get a real job. How'd u like if your daughter was doing that on some other perverts lap, ur that perve. Always remember that.

[Turnersmommy]

I would have kicked your ***, then thrown you out. How disrespectful! I hope you didn't do things like that before she got pregnant, and she just put up with it. Show her some respect..that's the last thing any woman wants to hear, much less a huge hormonal pregnant woman! Geez dude, use your  brain! This makes me so mad!! Bless her heart. You need to figure out how to apologize your butt off.

[Sundae254]

Pregnant women are very hormonal. Extra sensitive, extra mad, extra happy, just EXTRA! Plus we do get a little insecure specially the 1st time moms since we don't know what to expect. Our bodies are changing and we have to adapt to the new us for 9months, its not easy. We don't want no sexy stripped dancing on our guys specially since we're pregnant it feels like a slap in the face...like am I not sexy enough to give you a lapdance even with a prego belly lol... Seriously tho apologize, remind her how sexy she is carrying your child & no women could ever replace her. Make her feel secure especially at a time like this... Just a few pointers :) good luck

[Acardon]

Gosh I know about that I was 160 now 200lbs 5' 10' but still weight gain is like a mind screwer and if another girl was on my guy good luck buddy

[Acardon]

Dude she is prego with ur child and for you to even allow a stripper to go near u is a no no I am prego to and my guy got a note from some girl and didn't tell me and I was pissed regardless if he forgot its like I would keep apologizeing till ur mouth bleeds because if she was like me there is no coming back from that.

[mommyofhayden_]

Even nice girls get insecure.... I would be the same way if my fiance came home and had told me that story.. I wouldn't talk to him until our son was born... You have to realize how hard it is to become pregnant and gain weight. Half of the time we don't even feel attractive. Be a sweetheart and never make this mistake again.

[PriceFamily91611]

ANY IT MAKES UR GIRL FEEL LIKE SHES NOT GOOD ENOUGH, LIKE IF U WANTED A LAP DANCE WHY DIDNT U JUST GO TO HER THATS WHAT IS GOING THREW HER HEAD

[brenconmom]

I understand it was a party...... But you need to realize that the last thing any woman wants, let alone a pregnant woman, is for her man to be letting a dirty *** stripper rub all over him. You think it's just for fun and no big deal but we think it's disrespectful and rude. And hormones only male it worse. I'd be pissed too if you were my man. Give her time and space but at the same time text or call to show her you do care about her and baby. Maybe send some flowers and when she does calm down do something nice for her. NO MORE STRIPPERS!!!!

[PriceFamily91611]

IF THAT WAS MY HUSBAND ID BE SOOO MAD AT YOU TOO!!!!!!!

[mommy2be143]

Really...shouldnt have let a stripper all up on you especially knowing you got a sweet girlfriend at home with your baby! I dont blame her. Give her her space and see what happens.....

[mommyofaria]

Apologize...until you can't anymore and understand that she is pregnant...that's the last thing she needs you to be doing.