Is she really pregnant?

[lacondren]

My sons girlfriend states she got pregnant in December. She is a very thin girl and she went swimming about 2 weeks ago with my daughter and my daughter stated that her stomach looked flat. She doesn't talk about her pregnacy to my sons family (us). She was suppose to find out what the sex of the baby is a week ago and we haven't heard a thing. I also know that she goes out and parties alot. Which I don't approve of at all, not if shes pregnant. My son was suppose to go to the doctors with her but is always cancelled. I think she is lying and plans to say she lost the baby due to the systs.

[penswriter]

it does sound fishy.

ask to see u/s pictures, like someone else suggested offer to throw a baby shower, or even ask her to take an hpt.

i responded to your other post but some women don't show. i had an aunt who had a flat belly at 9 months. she went from a size 2 to a size 4. she gained i think MAYBE 9 or 10 lbs the entire pregnancy...she had an 8 lb baby. (who was completely and totally healthy)

and with the cysts i've had them on my ovaries for years even while i was pregnant with my twin boys.

[rebekah385]

i got pregnant the end of november and I am due Aug 27th, so if she got pregnant in Dec she would be due in more like the very end of Aug or the beggining of Sept, which would make her at the end of 5 months or the beggining of 6 month, which more than likely she would be showing, but if she has'nt gained muchit is possible for her to still be small. it does sound likes she lying if she keep canceling the Dr when your son is going to go, and as far as the cyst go the should make her miscarry if she really is pregnant, i have cyst and I am pregnant with baby #4. good luck to you and your son hope you figure it out soon!

[Cassandrajane]

It's very hard to say, I was 22 wks pregnant and didnt even know! back in Nov... I took a urine sample for kidneyy problems but I was pregnant.
If she is lying then that is VERY stupid, does she not care about those people who cannot have kids, IVF or adopt. Thats very stupid.
It's very hard to tell, some people dont know or look like their pregnant untill they are holding a baby in their arms.

Ask her out straight, or say you wanna see a scan to show another Family member, or a baby showerr.

x

[julz034]

Well if this is the same person If she got pregnant in December, she wouldn't be due in July. That would only make her 5 months pregnant and at 6 months with my first baby I had a flat 6 pack, so just because she isn't showing doesn't mean a thing. I mean there's not much you can do. Offer to have a baby shower? Ask if you can go to the u/s with her to see the baby.. and also if you're close with her parents, ask them! I'm sure they'd know. and how old is your son? This sounds like a more immature/teenage type relationship. If so, then maybe she is attention seeking, very common in teens, and very common for them to say they're pregnant when they're not. If this is an adult, maybe she just has issues, well she does if she's not pregnant.

Good luck either way. Must be a terrible feeling thinking you may have grandchild on the way but not really knowing for sure!! Keep us updated!!

[Raerae336]

It does sound to me like she's crazy. LOL.. to try to pull off being pregnant this long and not really being pregnant she's nuts. to even lie about it is nuts but to continue on like this well that's just insane.. some women don't really show but to have a flat stomach at almost 7 months is highly highly unlikely. If you are scared to confront her in fear of offending her.. say that you're worried she's not getting big enough so you'd like her to take a pregnancy test to make sure she's still pregnant and something didn't happen to the baby.. if she takes it and its negative you'll obviously know she's lying and you can then know in a none confrontational way if she's pregnant or not and she'll think she fooled you well enough and got out of it.. then you can let your son take care of the rest!:) keep us posted..

[maymay22]

Hmm sounds like she should b showing by now . i mean if she is a thin girl she would be showing but if she is tall its possible the baby could be in a virtical position instead of an outward position that makes the belly stick out but i wouldnt believe it hun..hope u find out soon ! she sounds like a lier though

[Clysta]

It's the same person, just a different wording. It gives more details to what is going on.

It really sounds as though she might just be making this up. It wouldn't be hard to find out if she is really telling the truth or not. The next time you see her, ask her to take a pregnancy test at your house. If she gets offended, explain the situation and say you just want to see for yourself. If she's not lying about it, I can't imagine why she would refuse to do it.

[julz034]

Did you post another post another post like this? Or was that someone else with the exact same issue??

[ammanda]

Its very possible that shes lying, and its possible that shes telling the truth but not letting him be a part of it for some reason. to me it seems like a lie, especially if she doesnt have a tummy, if she coniceved in December shed be almost 7 months pregnant and would defiently have a stomach.  And usually you find out the sex at five months. so it all seems kinda fishy.  I think you should confront her, or have your son say or do something. if she is pregnant, its really messed up what shes doing, your son has the right to be apart of it.  and if shes not, your son deserves to not be strung along just for her convienance...