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*MISCARRIAGE :'(

Does anybody have any advice on getting through a miscarriage? This has been a lot harder than I thought it would be. :( When my Doc told me I was fine but as soon as she hung up the phone I was devastated. I think about it all the time! Everywhere I go there is a baby or someone is pregnant and it's killing me. I feel like breaking down and crying right then. Just need some advice, PLEASE!
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have had two miscarriages and I even had a stillborn daughter, so I completely understand your pain. Some advice I have for u is to cry. Let it out. U can't ever begin to heal if you don't face those feelings. For a while u may want to avoid places where u know there are more babies or pregnant women. Time eases the pain a little bit at a time but u can get through this. Don't give up!
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1346146 tn?1299360497
There is also a miscarriage message board too with a lot of support there.  Sorry for your loss.
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1495106 tn?1323348213
Sorry to say but it will always hurt, how far gone were u?
i miscarried just before christmas last year,i was only 7weeks, i spent about 3 days crying. i spoke to everybody because i wanted everyone to know about my baby which they would otherwise know nothing about. u need to find a way to cope thats best for u.
i come on here every now and again if u wanna talk
sometimes its easier to talk to someone impartial.
stay strong! :)
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1947316 tn?1337300930
It's just like grieving hun. You have to give yourself time. Unfortunately most of the people in the world just expect you to be able to go back to your normal life as if nothing happened. I had one almost 5 years ago and there are still times when I see kids around that age that I wonder what the baby would look like. What's really hard for me is seeing my niece's little girl. My niece is only 3 years younger than me and she called and told me she was pregnant while I was waiting for my pregnancy test to process. So its a constant reminder even though I love her to death. :/ Just give yourself time. And it does get easier
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2020005 tn?1628125976
I'm so sorry for your loss hun!!
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