Because I am looking for a COMPETELY unbiased opinion, I am not stating which party/relation to which party I am and this will be very 'mechanical' in nature.
Wife: Currently 11 weeks in gestation, due date Oct. 24, 1st pregnancy, Type I diabetes (last A1C = 7), Rh -, living in CA
Husband: Currently overseas (military), due to return mid-August, being transferred to IL upon return, O+
Would it be safe for the wife to relocate and change physicians at ~15-19 weeks? What would the potential negatives be? At what point in the pregnancy would air travel be restricted?
Would it be safer for the wife stay in CA until after the baby is born? At what point after the baby is born would the wife be okay to relocate with the newborn? Should she wait for her post-natal check? Or would it be okay to relocate and return for the post-natal visit? Would air travel be safe for the post-natal visit?
Husband was deployed 1 week after learning of the pregnancy (1 day after 1st doctor visit); the military will allow 2 weeks off upon return from deployment; husband will be required to attend 4 weeks training in FL for new assignment shortly after return from deployment; after training, there is a 3 week time allowance before reporting to new assignment; husband will get 10 days maternity leave.
Timeline made simple:
Day 1: Pregnancy confirmed with MD; 6wks gestation, due date of Oct. 24th given
Day 2: Husband is deployed overseas
Mid-Aug: Husband returns to CA
Early Sept: Husband enters 4 weeks training in FL
Early Oct: Husband searches for housing and relocates to IL
Late Oct: Baby is born
Following birth: Husband has 10 days leave
???: Wife and baby relocate before or after birth???