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9126885 tn?1404418392

My M.I.L. DOESN'T like ME & WON'T see her GRANDKIDS when I'M AROUND

She WON'T come over, SPEAK 2 ME on the  PHONE, or spend time with her son if I'm home.  It's MY F*cking HOUSE. I'm not gonna leave so you can come over!! My fiance says she was jealous of me, and idk if that's true...
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9126885 tn?1404418392
I wish you ladies the best of luck, my hubby tried to talk to her but she won't listen. She just says were all against her, and how his sister is against her to. She calls him crying all the time. She tried to play the victim. I just don't get her. I don't even care at this point.
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5864651 tn?1396931970
My boyfriends mum is the same shes so jelous of our relationship shes tried to split us up many times and doesn't want me to be around when they see my daughter because they say they cant do nothing when im there they want her on her own I put my foot down and said they either see her with ne or not at all fsir to say she isnt happy aboht me and her son buying a house together. Why cant they just be happy that their children have found people they want to be with and are happy together ill never know
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8591317 tn?1410732068
My issue is with the S.I.L. she's younger than him & I understand they grew up together & all & he's basically been a father figure to him since the dad left them but still she needs to grow TF up. She said she never wants to live away from him. Even when we get our 1bd together she gonna sleep in the living room. I put my foot down & said HELL NO. I don't care what kind of freaky relationship yall got were yall so unseperatable & she doesn't even want to ever get a man cause she considers her brother her man. But you gonna his sister is not staying with us. She already caused trouble between us. Ugh. I hope this will all be over when we do get married & move in together in 2 months.
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9171754 tn?1412569817
Same problem I'm having mine wouldn't even take an ultrasound picture from me she didn't want it at all she want nothing to do with our child but I dnt sweat it its her lost an she's acting like this now so once the baby get here she's not allowed to see nor touch my child she's evil
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Anujanu1... what? How did she try to kill you?!
I love my little ones; I would have your sane attitude I would just say don't come over and make your husband visit her... but it's really hard to live like that I hope your husband can talk to her and she grows up.
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**** mil s ..mine tried to kill me ..thy can do anything for having their control over their son ..u better b careful n explain ur bf
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Omg I have the same problem my m.i l is so jealous but its her loss im living perfectly fine with out her presence you should do the same and not worry about her
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9442948 tn?1406816451
You really need to some how force her to suit down with you and you're fiance and have a talk with her, that is very disrespectful& there's no reason for her to treat you like that,  i can't not believe that, I'm so sorry.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Holy crap. Has it always been like that? I would have my husband talk to his mom and set her straight. My bfs parents didn't like me for a little while because during our 3rd year I left him a couple times and they were sick of it. But he told them to shove it and deal with it that I'll always be around then now our 4th year were happy and pregnant and they finally came around but that's ridiculous and rude of her.
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She probably is jealous.  Women get real territorial over there sons
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