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Husband Does Not Want Our Baby.

I will be 8 weeks tomorrow & ever since I told him I was pregnant he has been pressuring me to get a abortion. I don't believe in abortion. He is now always mad at me. What do I do?
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He will eventially get over it an except it giv em time
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Same happened to me. I found out i was preg at 5 or 6 weeks.. He wanted me to get an abortion i said no i didnt believe im that. He was pissed for a good 2 months but came around and hes happy.. Ur baby daddy will get over it
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When I got pregnant the first time my fiance wanted me to have a abortion. I decided to keep her and he's now a amazing father. He adores our little girl and he always says he couldn't picture life without her.
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When I got pregnant the first time my fiance wanted me to have a abortion. I decided to keep her and he's now a amazing father. He adores our little girl and he always says he couldn't picture life without her.
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4591205 tn?1410605174
tell him to eff off in the end its your decision whether to have the baby or not
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I got pregnant for the first time last June. My bf (husband now) wanted to get an abortion and I was fine with it. Im pro choice and didn't mind getting one. 3 months After I had the abortion (beginning of sept) I found out I was pregnant AGAIN (I had been on birth control this time) and when I told him he said he wanted to keep it, he had just been worried the first time but after I had the abortion we both secretly hoped id get pregnant again. Now im 37  along and we are both very excited about getting to meet our son. Id say just talk to him to find out what exactly he has against having the baby. He may just be scared.
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Depending on how long you have been married, you can try to see if he would be willing to see a counseler so you guys can open up on your feeling about the option of keeping the baby instead of abortion. Hope all works out well
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I'm not so sure that he will say sorry, he believes that's its ok to have a abortion thru out the whole pregnancy.
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5159375 tn?1368562728
I don't believe in abortion either.so I know the feeling of the person not wanting to keep the child. Its your decision as a woman. They (men) have no control over our decisions. Do what you believe is best.
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Don't even bring up the fact that your pregnant, talk about other things avoid the fight. Maybe he's just stressed right now, he will get over it. Sorry about your situation. But really just ignore it right now, I bet he will apologize for saying it once he has time to think about things to himself
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4476664 tn?1361632949
Personally.....if you want to keep your child, do so. If you aren't sure, then look into adoption if that's something you could handle. If you don't believe in abortion then don't do it. I'm sorry he feels that way and is being mean : (
Good luck luv.
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