I wouldn't go idc what he's says
Thank u i firmley believe so to if he loves us he will put us first right im going to do whats best for my son
Yes you guys come before anyone and you're not wrong for feeling that way I personally don't take my daughter around ppl who I feel don't respect me
If he gets parenting rights, he'll take the baby over there without you.
I think I'd rather be there with the baby than have the baby there without you.
i had the same situation (kind of), except i lived with my sons dads mom right after giving birth. his dad was arrested the day before he was born. once i brought my son home no one in his dads side of the family wanted to help me with our son. after about 2 months of doing everything myself (remind you, i breastfed, and wasnt working), i got my sons clothes and diapers and everything he needed. once his dads side of the family decided they didnt want to help, i started keeping MY son away from all of them including his brothers. he is still in jail for another 3 years, and his family still treats me like crap (after raising our son by myself).
i guess what im saying is if he wants to be around you and your child let him be around. i agree about keeping away from his family because you dont need the extra stress. if they want to see the baby it needs to be on your terms, not theirs.