I'm really confused right now... about two weeks ago my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time. we used a spermicidal condom and he didn't even go inside me (meaning he pulled out with the condom on). it didn't break or tear at least not that i know of. for the next week and a half, it would burn after i urinated. it's gone now and i took a uti test which came out negative. about halfway through that week i started having a dark brown discharge. it would stain my underwear but not enough to where a pad. a couple days into that it started having blood in it but not a ton. i could wear a tampon but a little still came out. now it is back to the brown clumps... did i just have an abnormal period or what? i didn't have my period last month but that is kinda normal for me because i can them from time time. also last month i had that brown discharge for about a week and a half and i've had that before but i hadn't had sex then... i'm afraid to see the doctor honestly but i don't know whats going on now. someone please help :(