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OT: So ticked off at my brother!
Ok, I've gotta vent because I cant tell him I know or tell his wife or anyone else in my family. As some of you know, my hubby cheated on me before I found out I was pg. And what most don't know, is my dad cheated on my mom repeatedly leading to they're divorce.
Well my brother got married Sept. 1 one year after I did. he's 20 yrs. old, his wife is 21. Everyone thought they had almost the perfect relationship. Well... for the longest time they didn't sleep together because his wife has some unknown medical issue where it is horrifically painful to try to have sex. She doesn't have insurance and therefore can't go see a doctor about it. I don't ask about it anymore becuase it's not my business, but I knew that as of 6 months ago they still hadn't slept together.. They've been married almost 2 yrs.
BUT- She's not stupid and still "takes care" of him. As of 2 days ago I find out he's trying to "cyber" online with girls he meets thru his game. Guild Wars. My friend bryan found out when this girl he likes told him that my brother was trying to talk sexually to her. and also telling her stuff like "bryans ex said she'd choose me over him anyday"
This girl sent him a screen shot so we KNOW it's true.
Well, she told him to stop, after he tried to "start" about 2 more times, but bryan is his BEST FRIEND. he was best man at my brothers wedding. I've told him he needs to call my brother out on this because he's being disrespectful to not only Bryan, but the girl, and his WIFE. and I guess now his wife may be pregnant.... they're not sure yet. (bryan told me this) and bryan isn't letting on that he likes this girl either, so my brother thinks it's ok... and DENY's saying sexual things to her.
UUUGHHH... our family was ripped apart due to my dad not keeping it in his pants. Now my brother wants to play the same games under his wifes nose?
I wanna tell her so bad, but it's not my place to even let him know I know. I think hes despicable for doing these things!
What I did tell bryan is if it keeps up that I WILL tell him to stop it or else his wife will find out.
Well my brother got married Sept. 1 one year after I did. he's 20 yrs. old, his wife is 21. Everyone thought they had almost the perfect relationship. Well... for the longest time they didn't sleep together because his wife has some unknown medical issue where it is horrifically painful to try to have sex. She doesn't have insurance and therefore can't go see a doctor about it. I don't ask about it anymore becuase it's not my business, but I knew that as of 6 months ago they still hadn't slept together.. They've been married almost 2 yrs.
BUT- She's not stupid and still "takes care" of him. As of 2 days ago I find out he's trying to "cyber" online with girls he meets thru his game. Guild Wars. My friend bryan found out when this girl he likes told him that my brother was trying to talk sexually to her. and also telling her stuff like "bryans ex said she'd choose me over him anyday"
This girl sent him a screen shot so we KNOW it's true.
Well, she told him to stop, after he tried to "start" about 2 more times, but bryan is his BEST FRIEND. he was best man at my brothers wedding. I've told him he needs to call my brother out on this because he's being disrespectful to not only Bryan, but the girl, and his WIFE. and I guess now his wife may be pregnant.... they're not sure yet. (bryan told me this) and bryan isn't letting on that he likes this girl either, so my brother thinks it's ok... and DENY's saying sexual things to her.
UUUGHHH... our family was ripped apart due to my dad not keeping it in his pants. Now my brother wants to play the same games under his wifes nose?
I wanna tell her so bad, but it's not my place to even let him know I know. I think hes despicable for doing these things!
What I did tell bryan is if it keeps up that I WILL tell him to stop it or else his wife will find out.
KStarr~ There IS a chance they've had sex since six mo ago. But I don't ask about it. OOORRR there are other ways to get PG... if the guy gets ** on his hand and then touches her there... or a "Misfire" lol.
Shadowserpent~ The thing is.. my brothers a true *ss. he doesn't care about anyones feelings at all. He's the type to just call ppl racial slurs for the fun of it. Basically if he p*sses anyone off it doesn't matter. part of it comes from him being bigger than anyone else... so he could "beat them up" (when he was younger, but the attitude stuck.)
He's 6'6. lol it just really eats at me because he had HUGE issues with my dad after what happened. And I feel if I confront him that he's gonna say "I'm not REALLY cheating" etc etc.
Basically I'm waiting for Bryan to confront him as he's his best friend. By the way, I forgot to mention, that my brother wants children but he's a "house husband". He doesn't even have the decency to get much less keep a job. he's happy letting his wife earn the money even tho they don't have Cable TV and live in low income houseing. Then gripes about it. He also WONT get his drivers lisence. Basically he doesn't "like" to drive and relies on his wife, my mom, or me and my husband on occasion to drive him everywhere.... He has no true grip on his priorities! and it drives me nuts. This was just the last straw for me.
Shadowserpent~ The thing is.. my brothers a true *ss. he doesn't care about anyones feelings at all. He's the type to just call ppl racial slurs for the fun of it. Basically if he p*sses anyone off it doesn't matter. part of it comes from him being bigger than anyone else... so he could "beat them up" (when he was younger, but the attitude stuck.)
He's 6'6. lol it just really eats at me because he had HUGE issues with my dad after what happened. And I feel if I confront him that he's gonna say "I'm not REALLY cheating" etc etc.
Basically I'm waiting for Bryan to confront him as he's his best friend. By the way, I forgot to mention, that my brother wants children but he's a "house husband". He doesn't even have the decency to get much less keep a job. he's happy letting his wife earn the money even tho they don't have Cable TV and live in low income houseing. Then gripes about it. He also WONT get his drivers lisence. Basically he doesn't "like" to drive and relies on his wife, my mom, or me and my husband on occasion to drive him everywhere.... He has no true grip on his priorities! and it drives me nuts. This was just the last straw for me.
this happens alot, on those kind of games, i have friends that play guildwars, world of warcraft and i play everquest and its INSANE the amount of guys trying to cyber you online. look he may your brother but you could at leasts it him down one on one and talk to him, after all he is married and he loves her he would not do this! poor girl!
That's sweet of you to care about your sister in law, rather than turn the other cheek. I agree with you, what a jerk. How is his wife possibly pregnant though if they can't have sex?
doing that behind his wifes back is sooooo unbelievably wrong!! Ouch!!
He's married, not supposed to be acting like a 17 yr old!!! I hope he stops or his wife finds out. The truth will eventually come
out. Its not his wifes fault if he couldn't have sex! Men!! I swear!!! I know ur upset about this, so maybe something will happen and things will get settled.
He's married, not supposed to be acting like a 17 yr old!!! I hope he stops or his wife finds out. The truth will eventually come
out. Its not his wifes fault if he couldn't have sex! Men!! I swear!!! I know ur upset about this, so maybe something will happen and things will get settled.
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