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1731528 tn?1310153486

PLEASE HELP PREGNANT ND JUST NEED ADVICE!!!

I really just need some advice...I am 30 weeks pregnant now but i am not 100% sure who the father of my child is. I just want to know your opinions on who is more likely the father. I had sex with guyA on november 19 nd with guyB december 27. I wasnt to sure when my LMP was so I just went on and had my first ultrasound on feb.22. According to them i was 10 wks and four days {confusion the US pic said 11 wks 4d} they told me that my LMP was dec.2 {I dont remember having a period in december}, I concieved dec.16 and my due date was September 8. Now two weeks later i went to another doctor and had an US. This time the doctor said that I was 13wks, My LMP was dec.10th {I dont remember having a period in december}, I concieved dec.24th.I had sex wth these guys 5 weeks apart. Who is most likely the father??? PLZ ND THANKYOU
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1027094 tn?1327429732
My guess would be guy B. IF you got PG in Nov your due date would be in Aug. IF you got PG in Dec your due date would be Sept.
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768015 tn?1333652075
I am 30 weeks also and I conceived on december 25th. It is most likely Guy B
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1731528 tn?1310153486
yes iwas thinking the same thing,,, guy B is my current bf and the thing that is really getting to me is i really dont remember having a period no where in december and also why is my conception date 3 days before I even had sex???
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768015 tn?1333652075
Hmmm....I don't really know if I can give you a great answer but hopefully one of the other ladies will see this post and help you.
I do know that with this pregnancy and with my daughter when I was in the 1st trimester and would have ultrasounds the dates would never match the date of my LMP. With my first daughter according to my LMP I was supposed to be due around September 19th but when I had an early ultrasound around 10 weeks it gave me a due date of September 13th so the doctor went by that date.
With this pregnancy I have no idea when I actually conceived but the tracker says December 25th. I am due September 17th and will be 30 weeks tomorrow. My LMP was December 11th. Honestly If you got pregnant in november with GUY A I think you would be further along and due in August but I am not a professional.
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768015 tn?1333652075
I'm sorry,,, I'm having pregnancy brain.. My 1st daughter was due October 13th not September 13th.
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175665 tn?1306459024
Either way it really looks like GuyB would be the dad. But if you're still not sure you can always do a DNA test after baby is born to be 100% sure. I worked for a paternity lab for a couple of years and it's not as bad as you'd think or expect. They make it pretty easy. But hoenstly if both ultrasounds are saying your LMP was in December I'd say GuyB.
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1731528 tn?1310153486
thank you for the advice and opinions
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I agree with above. Your mind will never rest until you know for sure. Save up and buy the paternity test. You can even buy them online now.
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I agree with above. Your mind will never rest until you know for sure. Save up and buy the paternity test. You can even buy them online now.  Also here is some info on why the medical dates never seem to match the actual dates:

http://www.babiesonline.com/articles/pregnancy/a10monthpregnancy.asp
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My guess is guy b too. My due date is sept 19 and I know I concieved in Dec. Like the other ladies said, if you still aren't sure, you can get a paternity test. Good luck!!
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My guess will by Guy B.
Good luck
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I'm 29 weeks and conceived New Year's Eve!
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325224 tn?1342795914
I would have to say GuyB, like the ladies above have said.  If you concieved in December, then it would be the second guy.
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