Tell them to be quiet and focus on staying healthy yourself and taking it easy!
Well kind of the same thing happened for me . I'm now 38 weeks with my little girl after a miscarriage last August and we kept trying until in Oct I was finally pregnant they say after 12 weeks your babies chances to miscarry go way down. So good luck and don't mind what anyone says just stay positive.
Thank you guys, I thought I was going crazy because it felt like no one understood how hard it can be. But congrats, and thanks again