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IMA FTM WITH MY HEALTHY BABY BOY KJ. IM VERY EXCITED BUT ALSO VERY SAD CAUSE MY HUSBAND IS IN JAIL AND HAS BEEN SINCE I WAS 9 WEEKS IM NOW 23 WEEKS. HUBBY WILL BE IN THERE BETWEEN 4-18 MONTHS I JUST FEEL REALLY LONELY WITHOUT HIM I CRY MYSELF TO SLEEP SOME NIGHTS CAUSE I WANT HIM HOME TO RUB MY BACK MASSAGE MY FEET GO GET MY LATE NIGHT CRAVINGS JUST TO BE AROUND SO I CAN LAY ON HIM. IM SCARED TO GO IN LABOR AND HE ISNT HERE WHO IS GOING TO CUT THE CORD HELP ME WITH A NEWBORN. I KNOW HIM BEING IN JAIL IS A BAD THING BUT ITS ALSO A GOOD THING CAUSE HE NEEDED A WAKE UP CALL HE NEEDED TO CHANGE FOR HIS KIDS THIS WILL BE HIS SECOND FOR HIMSELF FOR ME AND HIS FAMILY BUT OMG BEING PREGNANT IS REALLY HARD WITHOUT YOUR OTHER HALF.
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973741 tn?1342342773
Well, I can feel your sadness from the way you write.  Sometimes, we go through rough things to get to the good part of life and your fiancé is doing the rough part now with good stuff (you and baby) waiting.  It has to be hard to not have him here and the holidays are coming and all of that too.  Maybe he can use the birth of his child to be a reason to get the lower number of months on his sentence.  If he gets out more on the 4 month mark, he's almost free!  Anyway, I'm sorry you are going through this and are feeling so sad.  I'll say a prayer for you and your hubby for peace and comfort and for time until you are reunited to go by quickly.  peace
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I have a 14 yr old brother but all my family is back home which makes things really hard for me. I'm here with his family but its not the same I want my husband so bad. He calls a million times a day to check on me and Jr and I have to put him on speaker so he can talk to his baby its so sweet and cute. I just cry especially when I wake up at night hungry or my back be hurting and its hard to get out the bed I so miss him. Ye we've had a lot of problems but like I said I know this is a good thing for him.
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Hope he gets better and learns his lesson. And stays clean and doesnt mess up again with whatever he did. He needs to be there for you and kids. But I do understand it has to be very hard for you. I couldnt imagine going thru my pregnancy alone. Even tho my husband doesn't underatand me 90% of the time. Idk what id do alone. Good luck hun. I wish you all the best! Youll have him soon.
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973741 tn?1342342773
I'm sorry.  I can sure understand how that makes you so sad.  It's hard to be separated from someone we love ANY time but especially during what is one of the best times (and hardest times) of our life.  We go through a lot when pregnant--  the good the bad and the ugly and it is so nice to share it with the baby's dad.  And you have something keeping you and the baby's daddy apart.  That would indeed be really hard.  It's not the same, but do you have any close family like a sister that you can lean on?  That might come to the birth with you to help you and be your support?  

Anyway, sorry about the situation and think about how wonderful it will be when he is a free man and you two can live as you like.  peace
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