still can't see baby

[crazymama78]

So i went in Dr today and they still can't see any baby. She said there is no way I'm this far (6 w4 d) but the last day my ex and i slept together was 31 last month, and that week was when i did the hpt and got a light positive. Could i really have had this happen, or i don't have a healthy pregnancy and am going to miss carry :(  I'm so upset.

[crazymama78]

I don't have insurance, the clinic has temp help for me that only works there until i can get state insurance. or i would go in the er. Just can't afford to
Sorry about the rant. Think i was finally dealing with the fear of that night.
Trying to calm down now, big mac kinda helped lol jk,
So now i just wait. Ill go in next week for another ultra sound. Hope i will know how far i am then i can deal with what to do. Or ill hopefully know if I'm going to miscarriage. No matter what the answer is next week i can't do anything or change it now. Just have to trust.
Ex still not talking to me, even tho he knows I'm prego, but that's ok, not sure i could deal with him right at this moment.
Going to try and worry about eating, hard to do right now, work and the o so fun servsafe text tomorrow. And being the best mom to my other kids, btw are the most amazing kids ever.
Thank you guys for your love and support.

[sarahkr]

I went to the er at exactly 6 weeks cause of cramping and spotting.  I was given a vaginal sonagram and they saw everything (yolk sac, fetus, heart beat) go in to the er. Just say something similar or what not. Request a vaginal sonagram.  They Will be able to pick up more info. I do remember the lady telling me though how surprised she was with how much she had picked up with me that early. Good luck!

[85Laurasim]

If I read correct, u would not get a positive result 2 days after conception, as your hcg levels would not have been high enough, I would think its your ex partners???

[crazymama78]

I can only be not even a whole week earlier due to the break up with my ex. But this evening thought of a new problems. Two days before i did the hpt i went out for a drink after work. Had few but that's nothing for me, i don't remember much more. Became very out of it fast. Was told a old friend drove me home. ( Someone i did not know that well and never would have had him drive me) When i woke i was only in my shirt and underwear. I don't think he did anything but can't say for sure. He did not leave a mess if he did. I decided to forget about it causes i had to. I don't know where he lives now or could get a hold of him to ask. But that is not like me, i have to drink a lot to be out of it. I use to bartend. That day was my last pill day. Two days later did the hpt.
I don't know what I'll do if I'm pregnant from a rape. This has to be my exs baby. I don't know what happened. I hate this feeling right now. Did not even think about this till today.  I have only slept with one man in the past 3 years. I don't go out and hook up. Even when we broke up last time i did not sleep with anyone. I can't even say if i was raped cause i can't remember anything, this can't be. never thought it could be this cause of no proof anything happened and right after if it did happen, a positive test? I'm so upset and scared. What the help am i going to do

[amira88lovesky]

I had to go to Er over two months ago for first time and they did u/s fetus was 6 weeks and jus a sac. I was told earlier than that u wont see anything. ur probably less than what u are. If u for sure wanna check baby go to er and say ur having pain n they might check further than ur current doc

[JayBee26]

A lots happened since then so its a bit hard to remember exacts lol

[JayBee26]

I believe her exact words were I don't even see a yolk sac
Or something like that...

[crazymama78]

She sounded so negative. She is sending me for a ultra sound next week and more blood work. Then i see her again later next week. She freaked me out bad.

[RissaBbyGurl]

They saw absolutely nothing until i was 8 weeks, a lot can happen in a week lol

[crazymama78]

Or did you find out you were not as far along as thought.

[crazymama78]

Were you8 weeks when they did finally see baby?

[JayBee26]

It can be exceedingly difficult to see anything that early, we didn't see ours til like 7 and a half to 8 weeks somewhere and even then he was almost unnoticable. Try not to stress out/worry.
Hang in there keep checking keep taking those prenatals and I wish you the best

[RissaBbyGurl]

I didnt see anything at ALL until i was 8 weeks and then there he was with his little flickering heartbeat. Im now 30 weeks.