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Sad n lonely rant

I'm 23+2 week n I am 21 years old. I'm the only one out of my friends in a serious long term relationship and I noticed since then they started hanging with me less then I got pregnant and it seems like I have no friends. I try to text/call them but they ignore me unless they need a favor. One of my "friends" even called to see if she could borrow my bf to bring to a rave as her bf like wtf....they never ask how I'm doing either. And if for some reason they decide to hang with me they come over eat my food n leave....I live in iowa and can't seem to find anyone's age and pregnant. I get 21 is drinking age here but come on there is more to do then that. Wish my "friends" would realize that....I honestly sit in my house all day n night not talking to anyone. My family lives 4 hours away and my bf works out of town everyday. :( what happen to real friends?!
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Thanks ladies! I'm in ames and have tried to find some classes to take such as pregnancy yoga but they have nothing here. I even try to be friends with my bf friends gfs but that never works they r either stuck up n full of themselves or they don't like that I'm pregnant n can't drink.
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I completely understand honey. I'm in Iowa too. Add me on Facebook. Ashley Kristen Hoyt Savage
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you'll find friends sweety but it wont be by sitting at home all my friends did that to me when I told them I was pregnant I'm 22 yrs old and my baby is due in November I have very few friends now at first it really hurt me but the more I got to thinking it showed me how is really there for me. I have no family here so I went to mommy and ne classes and prenatal care classes and have met lots of girls in the same boat you'll find some it just takes time
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You can add me on Facebook.  Kisstin edge
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My family lives 2 hours away as well and my husband is a farmer which means he's gone between 12 and 16 hours a day.
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I was in the same boat sweetheart.  I wanted kids. And tried to get pregnant with both. Was married. I had two kids by age 21. Your friends abandon you.  That's just how it is. I am 23 pregnant with my 5th but only have two living chilren. I have no friends and am married. It's the way it is. You'll just have to get used to it.
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*anyone my age and pregnant..
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