Went to ny first ob appointment everything looks great and will have a ultrasound in 3 weeks. But me and my guy have yet to tell anyone and we ran into his mother at the doctor while we were scheduling our first ultrasound and she rushes in going off. Shes asking my guy so she's pregnant ? Im going to be a grandma and you didnt tell me ? Do you hate me ? I can still whoop you. All to my guy. And crazy thing is we live in our own plaxe , pay our own bills , have our own car and etc. So afterwards his sister calls and bombarded me with questions so I give him the phone and get on facebook and see that she made a status that says I dont see why people dont want better for themselves. Only want to make there life harder. Im so sad because we were planning to tell them when we hit 12 weeks. I'm only 9 and they ruined my beautiful moment. And to say that we're making a poor choice is so horrible. I love my baby soo much and I would never think of any other option than to have him or her. Sorry for the long rant I'm just so sad.