Should i stop worrying this child is mine?

[jammy211]

Hey everyone,

i had protected sex with a girl (used a condom) and it didn't break, and i used it totally effectively. The girl tells me it was the 26th of march as she can remember going into college saying she was on her period on the 28th. However I'm not sure whether it was the 2nd of april, therefore a week later than the 26th of march and after her period.

I am very worried because she's now pregnant and due soon. The thing is she had a boyfriend straight after me, and had sex with him 10 to 15 times without any form of protection, and said she can remember the conception date being the 13th of april, which is very close to the conception calculators prediction and bang on her ovulation date.

However i am just super paranoid about it and feel emotionally drained and find it hard to connect with my current girlfriends and friends because of this. Should i be worried? Should i trust her? Should i request a DNA test?

Please help. Cheers.

[ashaleelynn]

If she had her period after you had sex then its highly unlikely its yours because there would be no lining in the uterus for the baby to attach to. So i wouldnt worry to much. Plus if she had unprotected sex with someone else its a waaaay greater possibility it is theirs. Hope this helps!

[jammy211]

Well she's due in a week and a half.... and ultrasound says it was 13th of april she conceived... which is based on her LMP counting back two weeks... which is also the same as the conception calculator.

[mrsjaimet]

There is always that possibility that the child is yours the only way to know for sure is a DNA test.

[mushie14]

theres always that.possibility... How far along is she? The doctor could tell by doin an ultrasound.... But to be sure I say dna nev
a lies

[jammy211]

heyy man cheers for replying. Im 17 and she is too. Whether i wanna step up and be a dad is not what i was asking, i was asking whether this child could be mine?

[mrsjaimet]

If u wanna step up and be a dad if the child is yours then yes u should definitely get a DNA test. But if u don't wanna be a part of that child's life then just leave it alone.