I do know if you have any state assistance or child support they like to see his as a primary insurance... however i think ultimately it's a personal choice whichever you prefer. You could do his as primary and yours as secondary. Or vice versa. It's good to have the baby under both.
I guess i should say i do know that's how it works where i live.
We're getting some legal paperwork drawn up after she gets here, but we're bypassing the official state child support right now and trying to do it a little more informally. Inevitably, I'll end up paying more for her than he does...you know child support is a joke compared to what kids need, but I also make a good 20 grand more than he does. So no state assistance, and while he'll be contributing, no state-run child support.
I'm asking more because my default plan was just to add her to my insurance for now. But if his insurance costs less monthly and is just as good, I'm wondering if we should place her under his policy. We'd both be contributing to her monthly medical costs either way, I'm just wondering if there is any particular benefit to keeping her under my insurance or any particular rules about these things.
Does anybody know, does it matter for tax purposes? I do plan on claiming her.
I don't believe it matters one way or the other, my SIL and her boyfriend aren't married, and have two different insurances, his costed less, so she just put the baby under her boyfriends insurance, no problems have arose this way. I know your situation is a bit different due to you two not being together, but as long as the insurances are similar in coverage, I would say go for his if it's cheaper!
I'm actually not sure about taxes though, I've never filed long form, just not worth it for us, and I'm not sure if that's something that would make a difference, you could always call whoever does your taxes and ask them!
As far as the insurance goes, I would look into which is the better coverage, even better, put her on both so she can be double covered, if possible...with kids it's always better to have more because you just never know. Last year I ended up paying my son's whole deductible because of his asthma, and let me tell ya, I wish he was double covered at the time