Mine was crazy at first but I have gone to the "eh I can live without it now" stage, so I feel the same way lol
My sex drive has been at a zero my whole pregnancy. (38 weeks) Its was like this with my first too. I'm just too lazy and tired to do anything anymore.
16 weeks and my sex drive is completely gone. I felt bad so I bought him a toy for men at a sex shop. It's like a vagina just rubber. He hates it but I caught him using it so he can't hate it too much lol sorry for the tmi
My sex drive is at a crawl. :( we still have sex just not nearly as often as before, but I try to be undestanding and, ahem, "compensate" in other ways, just as he is understanding and let's me be with some cuddle time. If I'm not feeling bloated or painfully constipated I usually go for it but we make sure to include a LOT of foreplay in order to rev me up.
Girl lol I didn't get my sex drive back till probably 30 weeks! I felt so bad for my husband, I felt the same way you did I think it may just be an increase in hormones! Don't worry doesn't make u a bad wife if he loves u he will understand! 37 weeks!