To Young

[YoungMommyy19]

OK I'm 19 years old and I have a two year old and a 6month old and I'm 4 months pregnant am I to young to have 3 kids ?

[african_mama_bear]

Awww thank you trust i have been thru it all for being the age that i am and any way i can help give someone support or information with my personal experience i will do so

[ericaranae]

This app should get a like buttom because i like afican mama bears comment. I like everyones but the fact that she knows from personal experience and shared that is very cool

[african_mama_bear]

My mom is 42 and still cant raise her children she had my sister at 18 me at 20 21 i forget and my three younger brothers in her late 20s early 30s she didn't raise us and we she finally could she had more kids and had us raise them lol while in middle schoole i had to wake my brothers up get them dressed and to day care pick them up from the bus stop help with h.w and this went on until i had my own kid in 2014 and said im not doin this anymore and moved in with my boyfriend cause i was raising too many kids and my daughter was my number one priority now my sister takes them to school sport activity and meetings smh her and my dad old as dirt and cant raise no children i had my daughter at 21 and im doin a better job than her now im having my second and ill still be a better mother i know people who had kids while i was in hugh shool who are the best mother to their kids it dont matter how old you are when you have kids hun age aint nothing but a number if your mind isn't set to raise kids than you wont be motivated to do it

[Destynee2015]

If you can raise 3 kids at the age of 19, you should be a proud woman. Lots of women cannot at any age. I dont think youre too young. My mother in law had her first at age 15 and her 5 sons are the most well raises young men ive ever met. You can do it. You were destined to be a mommy so own it. :)

[ericaranae]

And also i will honestly say i respected that girl so much to have 3 kids and work so hard to take care of them to the fullest just because you are young doesnt make any difference there are 40 year old woman with one kid and cant provide for them... So just look at it like your that amazing of a person to raise three kids at 19

[MissPooh22]

It's your opinion I'm 22 with 4 kids nobody have to take care of them but yourself

[ericaranae]

I used to have a best friend that had three girls by the time she was 20 her first was born when we were 15 she was the best mother ive ever seen such a strong woman and provided with or without her baby daddy in the picture he came an went as he pleased and she even provided for him when he was around... As long as you know in your heart that you will do anything for you children i dont think your age will matter you got this stay strong and be the best you can be you kids will respect and love you so much knowing how hard things were and you did it for them :)

[Lovingbaby1115]

Why are you thinking its to young? Having unprotected sex has consequences like im 21 first child and already know I did what I did so im dealing with it.

[gabbylovee]

I feel the same way im 19 with my first baby im due in November but how i see it as long as those baby are well tooken care of and with a good mommy no we are young but more mature at mind

[kari_trice]

I think it is young. But I'm 21 and about to have my second kid. And I feel to young. But I try and look at it as, we will be able to be with our babies even longer and grow up with them.

So try not to feel like you're being judged. Look at it as a good thing that happen. Specially if you can support them or have help.