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My baby daddy is not there and my "best friend" has been treating me like **** so I am not talking to her anymore. She only likes being my friend for the attention of having a pregnant 16 year old friend because when I really need her she's no where to be found. Anyways I told her I didn't want her in the delivery room anymore but i did but shes just been being mean and in supportive and I want someone in there with me but I feel like having my mom in there is awkward.. She's my best friend and I love her to death but idk I just feel like anyone seeing me like that is weird. I don't want to be alone though. Did anyone else feel this way and it wasn't so bad with your mom in there?

elizabethhhkitty · Answer

Thank you so much! I feel a lot better about having my mom in there now

Nina159 · Answer

Its is so true befor labor I thought it was weird if my mom saw me but at the momment all u want is to push the baby out I had my cousen mom and bf in with me plued my awdome nurse im 17 with my first his 2 months it could be very lonly so if u needy some one yo listen to u a fried or some advice feel free to message me :)

pibarra88 · Answer

To be completely honest w u... when ur in pau n n just want ur baby out..  u dont care who is looking at ur thing... lol thats the least of ur worries.. but dont do it by yourself!!!

Cori90 · Answer

With my first i had my dad and sister in the room. My dad stood at the head of the bed and my sister held one of my legs. Truly you just want someone in there that will take care of you and calm you down... you don't want anyone in there thats gonna stress you out. Its all up to you but make sure its what you want and you can always change your mind

mamaellis · Answer

My first I had way to many people in my room... I had my sons dad and my sons god mother then in the back of the room my mom and my aunt, on top of that I had a student doctor 4 nurses and 3 doctors. I honestly at the time didnt care who I had in there with me I was just cought up in the moment and wanted my baby out. As for this pregnancy idk who all is gonna be in the room.. I'm hoping my husband but idk

happy_mommy_91 · Answer

Aww I bet having your mum will be a wonderful experience,  I had my mother-in-law in room and I didnt care its true like others say you wont care you will just want baby out haha... It brought us closer together she my best friend to me now :-)

lisaerin86 · Answer

I think having your mom in there will be so much more meaningful than your friend...your mom is always going to be in that babys life and will give the three of you a special bond.

KTowne · Answer

I had my first at 17 and having my mom there was the most important to me, my husband was there as well, but he was so scared that he couldn't comfort me at all. Your mom will be your biggest support system, and you'll be glad you had her there, trust me. And like BandRemsMom said, although you may think it will be awkward seeing your privates, you won't be caring ONE bit, I promise, haha. I think it would be more awkward having a friend in the room for me than my mom.

ladii_keya · Answer

In 19 & just had my first & I had my mom in the room. She actually helped so much because she stayed on top of the nurses to make sure I was comfortable & wen I delivered she held my leg back & held my hand coaching me with the doctors . The experience has made us closer . Feel free to message me if you need a friend because teen pregnancy can be lonely sometimes

BandRemsMom · Answer

I turned 17 the day i had my first and my mom was in the room along with my grandma and cousin. Having my mom in there was the best decision i made because she knows me better than anyone and she made me so its not like she hasnt seen what i have down there. Once your in labor you dont care who can see you, you just want baby out. I had only my mom in the room this time too and she was very helpful as usual.
Moms have a way of comforting us when no one else can.

elizabethhhkitty · Answer

Thank you for your inputs! I will most likely have my mom in there

mommyoftwocameronandbailey · Answer

My mom was in the room with both of my kids and I liked her being with me she helped alot my kids are now 3 years and 6 years and if I have more kids my mom will be there with them too

firsttimer19 · Answer

Honestly I don't think no one will be with me while im delivering. maybe  my mom will be there, I don't think it'll be weird because they've gone through it already.