Whats going on?

[lmt9930139]

Okay so af was due yesterday... I am crampy and getting yellow/brownish discharge like I do before my period... I dont feel pregnant or like af is comin but its early I guess I have been taking prenantals for bout two weeks but lately ive notice on the tp its bright yellow. Could it be the vitamins.? Or something else?

[sweetpea03]

Ok, well good luck.

[lmt9930139]

Hes the one.

[sweetpea03]

You really need to be protecting yourself against pregnancy, using some form of birth control at all times, until you are absolutely in a stable, healthy relationship, along with being financially stable and in a good place in your life. You say you are looking to be loved, so maybe this guy you are with is not the right one for you. That is the whole point of dating, to find out who the person is and if they are someone you would want to be with for the rest of your life. If he isn't meeting your needs and doesn't have all of the qualities/characteristics you want, then you need to move on. Breaking up is difficult, but it's not a reason to just stay with a guy who isn't good for you. Sit down and really think about your relationship, about whether or not you can see yourself with this guy long term. If he isn't good for you, then you need to think about your own well being and move on. Take some time to learn from this relationship and be single. Then when you start dating again, only date guys who have what you are looking for(the same goals and wants are yourself, same beliefs, loving, caring, etc). It would be awfully difficult if you got pregnant with this guy in such a rocky relationship for things to go smoothly and you would put yourself into a position of struggling for quite a while. I don't think you want to struggle, so make sure you are thinking about your future.

[lmt9930139]

Your right, I guess after 3 miscarriage i get be immature when it comes to having a baby..its just an emotional thing. but yes o does take alot of planning and stability to life to be sure bout having a baby or even a car or dog lol I am trying to fox my relationship, get us strong and then have a baby but I guess this cycle I got selfish. I wouldnt mind but reality is a baby is more then just love. Which is all I want

[Clysta]

Not thinking of your future is oftentimes why couples struggle, why so many divorce, and why so many go on government support. You can't coast through life living moment to moment, especially when a child can get thrown into that mix. We can all die at any second--it's just how things work.

[lmt9930139]

No rush I just the week after the last time we had intercourse we had sex in my fertile time. Ive always will always want a baby. Yes our relationship isnt the best and yes having a baby would not make things any better but if it happens it happens. . .not ttc. Buti cant help go be exxcited besides I really think af is coming cm was very dry for a couple of days and now random I have alot and borwnish like I do right bfore af and im cramping so she expected. A baby would make me a happy woman im young but idc I can die tomarrow I dont think like I have a life ahead of me ... So it is what it is my relationship is the best but what relationship doesnt have a rocky point...

[sweetpea03]

Vitamins can make your urine very bright yellow as well as giving your discharge a tint of color, too. I am a bit concerned that you are still TTC though, as you keep posting things about your relationship not being the best. You are only 20, what's the rush to have a baby?

[lmt9930139]

Even thou a baby wohld be pretty good too... But I leave it all to god! :)

[lmt9930139]

Okay thank you I think af is coming I guess ill be able to enjoy my 21st bday ina month :)

[Clysta]

It could be due to your hydration levels, but at the same time it can also be the prenatals. I believe it's due to a certain vitamin in them. Wait a few days to see if you get your period, and if not definitely make sure to take a pregnancy test. Good luck!