Thanks, babydream.... I appreciate your post and your advice. It really sux that this is happening - the last 3 months were just awful. And I don't want to tell people because then I feel like I'm just whinging (aussie slang for complaining too much).... sigh..... well, I guess I will just get on with it. Do you think I should see about a d & c or leave it be and see what happens next month? I still have cramping but the bleeding has finally stopped. Thanks for all your help.
It sounds like it's possible that you may have had a very early mc. The heavy flow, clots, & cramps w/backache makes me think it's possible; that is how my mc was. It has been estimated that every woman will experience at least one mc in her lifetime, the majority being before they even know they're pregnant. Know that if you did, it's nothing you did wrong. Most times it is a chromosomal abnormality that is incapatible with life. I'm sorry you're having to go through all this, I know how painful it is. Best wishes to you, take care!