Im a ftm but I come from a big family n I have taken care of babies before im not sayin im a expert or anything but I havent even had my son yet n ppl try to tell me wat I need to do n wat I dont already includin family members n I just feel like its my child I wanna raise him how I want to n it makes me feel like ppl think im stupid cuz alot of wat they tell me I already know n some are just suggestions but it drives me crazy when one suggest one thing the the other is opposite.. I know some are just tryin to help but it gets old u know.. plus I wanna be out of my in laws house so it dont happen but I feel bad about feelin this way.. wat should I do?