Ill be going back to work about 2months after ... But luckily i have family to watch him, forget the people who are criticizing thats your situation, you do what you need to do. As for daycare id suggest visiting many places, interviewing them and even asking to speak with parents who have their children enrolled there that way they can discuss with you on a more personal level how they truly feel about that day care. Best of luck :)
Try to find a daycare that only takes infants and babys under a year old or a daycare that has a seperate building this way your baby is getting the full attention they need.
Thanks ladies :-) I would love for my mum to take him but she lives over an hour away and works herself. I am sad about it but really feel that this makes sense to me and its only 3 days a week.
Baby will be fine, just do your research and you'll be fine.
You dont get 6wks bonding time after your 12wks?