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question for all the mommies

So my babies dad doesn't ever want to have sex he says it's because he feels weird because his baby is in there. Dues anyone else have this problem?
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7792797 tn?1413503184
Like a previous post-my hubby is loving my sex drive. Its doesn't change a thinkg. If he is so worried why dont u both talk to your doctor so he can hear that it is safe? With my previous child-hubby was away for a while for work and on the day he got back we had sex on the beach -next morning, my water broke! Its great to help with labor and having a healthy sex life is important for both of u.
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7136384 tn?1390142888
My man doesnt want sex at all in the last month of my pregnnacey -.- he said he feels weid too that his daughters in there and that he might bring labour and wants her to come on her own its annoying but i get it
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The baby cant feel your boyfriend inside you, it unprotected behind your cervix, and in its sac with all its fluid. It can feel it if you orgasm tho, but that isn't harmful
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Me and my boyfriend always have sex, nothing changed
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10046796 tn?1408897173
My bf was feeling on the fence about it at the beginning. He really wanted to but was scared that it was not good for the babies (twins) or me. I showed him a bunch of baby magazines and even brought him to an appt with my ob to reassure him that it's completely safe for us to do. He got really excited that he could still share that intimacy with me. Maybe showing your hubby facts and even having the ob talk to the both of you about sex may help him feel more comfortable. X
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Actually The Baby Does Feel The Guy Inside You But It's Does Not Harm The Baby, Sex While You Are Pregnant Is Good For You Makes Labor Easy
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Well my bd has two kids n I was the one worried and he told me sex is good for me keeps my v open n better for delivering the baby also the will be find and I'll tell you he beats my guts and I'm screaming n coming all over him tell your bd to stop playing lol.... Just had n ultrasound bbys fine heart beat strong
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10069934 tn?1408164172
My boyfriend was word about it for the first few days, but he seems to have gotten over it, as now he'll squish my boobs together so that they don't hurt as much from moving. How romantic. :) But that might change when I start to get bigger. Good luck. Have you tried telling him that he won't be poking the baby (not to hurt his ego or anything)?
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Yeah I had that problem he said what if the baby feels me in your? He would say crazy stuff.
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Nope my hubby is loving my high sex drive since I been pregnant. I'm actually the one feeling self conscious of how I look.
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8139104 tn?1419976395
Yes I have this problem, except my bf felt the baby kick once when we were having sex and it put him off sex
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