beyond scared

[val_mommy2b]

So idk why I did this but I Googled childbirth videos just to get a glimpse of what's to come ( I'm a ftm) I didn't even look at the actual videos I just looked at the pictures and OMG I'm scared I'm not sure if I can do this whole baby thing coming out of my vagina that's a lot A LOT of pain and I really don't know if I can do it I don't want a c-section b/c of the scar it leaves....Im scared I'm sitting on my couch crying b/c idk if I can do this I really don't ugh

[Michele, Katy, TX]

It is normal to be scared/nervous as a FTM but just remember that women have been doing this since the beginning of time so you can do it!  I just gave birth to my 8th, all vaginal births, and it's okay.  There are many parts of pregnancy that I dislike way more than the actual birth...comfort wise I mean.  So you will be fine!

[arnitia]

Lol I YouTube childbirth videos also!  Haha so scary smh I'll be there soon smh im terrified.

[newmama21]

Lmao don't youtube them!! I'm planning on doing it natural so I thought I would look up some videos of natural births.  Omg scared the **** out of me!!!

[numomii92]

Eeeeeekkkkk ftm here too so scared! 15 more weeks to go

[krissy1008]

I actually watched my birth they got a mirror so I could see it helped me with pushing

[Sammiegirl28]

Youtube birth WITH EPIDURAL, that's what made me feel better.

[shyloveskai]

When the labor happens for you, you go to the hospital, if the pain is too much, you can get pain medication (epidural) and you will feel no pain and you will be able to relax.

[Waywey47]

Lol I saw something like that on fb, I guess the baby's head was too big she couldn't push him out so the doctors used some type of scissors to cut the skin below the vagina.. As soon as I saw blood gushing out i exed out of it!!.. I'm terrified, but I'm ready

[Nicole_Harms77]

Honesty it all really just depends on your personal pain tolerance. I've had 2 babies without any pain medication and I plan to do the same with this one. In that moment all that will matter to you is your baby and meeting your precious blessing for the first time. Whether it be natural, c section, with meds, without meds the moment you hold your baby it will all be worth it. So calm down, don't stress everything is ok.

[teregarcalva]

When it's happening all you'll be able to think of is your baby being in your arms. Yes it'll hurt some but you'll get through it.

[Salmika]

Atleast you didnt youtube videos! Am also a ftm nd thats wat i did out of curiousity! Trust me that wud scar you.. so scary pple dont tell you wat your in for until its to late.

Hopefully you just have to pray labour goes fast

[lexi915]

Lol u wont see it tho ur getting the best view in the room aka the wall lol

[val_mommy2b]

I'm really trying to relax but after seeing those images I'm just trying to picture all of this and its not a pretty site at all. How could I be so stupid and Google that ugh

[Trayshona]

Its a natural thing u will be fine good luck

[4thonecoming]

It really isn't as bad as it looks lol you'll be ok

[lexi915]

Ull be ok hun when the time comes ull want ur baby here so bad everything else wont come to mind. And if u had to have a c section don't stress so much the cuts are so tiny nowadays ive had 3 and have no scar at all. I don't know anyone who stayed with a scar so don't cry just relax :)