If you were my patient, I would query you as to whether your doctors were able to determine what caused the neuropathy? Here is link to an article which may be of interest to you.
What I have been able to determine is that the condition is very rare, and when it does happen usually happens in first time moms. I would think the likelihood of it happening again is vanishingly small.
I also have to tell you that I have personally had both types of delivery and the c section was actually easier. You have to decide what's right for you, but C sections aren't too bad!
They said the baby was sunny side up and the fact that I pushed for almost 3 hrs. They are concerned because I have never fully recovered my son is 4 so they are afraid that another vaginal delivery would be putting pressure on nerves that had a very hard time healing the first time around. Thank u for the link I will for sure check it out.