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7454812 tn?1391877431

having regrets!

Is anyone regreting their lil one? I know it sounds bad but when it's unplanned it's difficult.  Maybe I'm stressing or a bit depressed *shrugs*!
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I cried and cried for a baby and then when I got pregnant I was so sick.  Lost ten pounds,  puked every hour.  I was so mad lol.  Now I'm better and so happy.  
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7454812 tn?1391877431
No I havent delivered yet.... I'm due the 13th .
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8744108 tn?1411750437
I think a lot of women go through this stage. I don't think it's regret as much as fear. Taking care of another human being for the rest of your life is a stressful and very scary thing. But it's also wonderful <3 don't worry, those feelings should go away. If you need to talk to someone about it, have your doc recommend a good support group or therapist. You'll be okay :)
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8975030 tn?1402144712
I wasn't ready for this baby especially with me wanting to split up with my husband. She wasn't planned and in the beginning I was stressing HARD. But I couldn't picture life without her. It gets better. Hope you feel better
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I'm feeling the same I don't have enough emotional support. Constantly being told I ruined my life. I can only speak to a very few without being  judged or lectured
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8835615 tn?1410091411
I was like that at first too. But once my sister and my friends knew and they supported me it got better. Now I'm 27 weeks and I can't wait to meet him/her. Excitement will come in time just keep your head up:)
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Have you had your baby hon ? If so I might call  in for post pardum depression.. unplanned  is never  easy that's  what  I'm dealing with but I have a lot of support at only 21 and a half weeks.
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Your not alone I felt that way with the first couple months of my pregnancy. Now I can't wait and am so excited. your probably stressed if you find some really good support people in your life the feelings start going away.
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