Follow Up to prevous Questions

[frank2019]

I recently posted this thread I have a few more f/u questions to this thread:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Pregnancy/A-few-questions/show/1786995#post_8222312

1. She had the kid on 8/27/12. 270 days after the time we fooled around the scenario I described which you stated it would be unlikely for me to be responsible. The child was born early according to the MDs.
2. The child is doing ok, in the NICU b/c they said it was born early and there are some lung problems but she should be ok.
3. She told me it would be impossible for me to culpable since she was not ovulating on 12/2. (not sure how she knows)
4. She said that on 12/17,2 days after her expected conception date she had her period or uterran implantation and that the doctors weren't really baffled bc they had seen things like this. She also said she had her period the first couple months she was preg.

?s

1. She said that just to have leverage on the father she will give him a paternity test once the child leaves the NICU and 100% believes its him from their unprotected intercourse on 12/15 so I guess in the next month or so my fears will be confirmed or denied.
2. Is it all possible for her to get her period/any bleeding 2 days after conception while shes on bc? Or does our event on 12/2 make it more likely for implantation bleeding on 12/17? This part is scaring me the most so I just researched that implantation bleeding can occur 6-12 days after fertilization. Is bleeding 2 days and as well as a few months into the preg possible? The MDs said she was rare.
3. Based on this new thread (the baby being born early closer to the date we hung, the bleeding on the 17th) and the old thread (with you saying it would be highly unlikely based on our encounter of just fingering) should I have any increased or decreased concern?

Thank you again and I will update you month when she does the DNA test. I just need a source to calm/justify my concerns. Sorry if starting a new thread was wrong.

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
If you were my patients, I would advise the paternity test. Bleeding during early pregnancy is common.  We almost never base our estimates of the baby's due date on bleeding any more.  We use ultrasound.  I can't remember if you mentioned an ultrasound due date.  Also, the pediatricians use a tool called a Dubowitz score to estimate how early or late a baby was born.  This score is based on the appearance of the baby. If the ultrasound and Dubowitz scores matched, I would stick to my original assesment of the due date and not change based on the actual birth date.  In this case, what is really needed is a paternity test.  That will clarify and pacify everyone.
I hope the biological father is also the best father==that is certainly not always the case!
Good luck!
Dr B

[frank2019]

Also, could the bleeding 2 days after your supposed conception date be from ovulation bleeding?

Thank You!

[frank2019]

Doctor, I have some more facts if you need anymore--

1. She said she had intercourse on the 12/15, had bleeding from the 12/17-12/20 with red blood. She thinks she had sex 2 days before her period and the sperm stayed in her system and did not attach to the utterine wall for another 7-10 days. is this even possible?
2. She said her last period was on our around 11/12 and she thinks she had one on 12/17 but had unprotected sex on 12/15 (so confused) and that was the pregnancy.
3. SHe had the kid at 36 weeks.

So I hope this follow up information helps. I am having extreme anxiety from all this since the dates arent adding up and seem closer to mine then his despite only me fingering her and dry humping.