87 days since last priod ........need advice.....

[prayingforbundleofjoy]

ok so it has been 87 days since the first day of my last period i normaly have irrgulare periods but they range 35-45 days appart i have taken 2 hpt both negitive i whent to the dr last week and will be getting the results back in 2 days i really hope i am pregnant but i just dont know my husbands saying is it will happen when it happens but we have been ttc for 1year 6months i am going crazy. i dont have many symptoms i have been getting headaches latley which is strange because i never get headaches and constapation but i am normaly very regulare i have been fealing kind off up set tummy but dont know if it is because i realy dont feel well or it is all in my head ...........healp.............  what do you think am i just goig crazy or could i be pregers

[kfer25]

Well don't get discouraged and keep on trying... Congratulations on your wedding, I too was really stressed out a before my wedding, so much that I passed out during the religious ceremony a few minutes after I said I do, I was so busy going everywhere getting the last details ready that I really didn't even have time to eat, lost 6 pound in like 4 days! not smart I know...

Anyway my hubby and I strated trying this month so now we are playing the waiting game... I wish you the best and please keep me updated on your status...

take care

[prayingforbundleofjoy]

i got my test reults today no baby this time which is what i suspected:(  i have had a very stressfull last 2months.. my wedding was last month it turned out wonderfull but i planed it all by my self witch was alot of work... o well next time ... my doctor wanted me to wait 3 months before he did anything in regardes to helping me have a baby. i lefted his office and by the time i got to work i realized that was BS and i have already waited 18months so i shcedualed an apt for the 18th of this month with him to talk to him

[kfer25]

When are you testing again.  Keep us updated.

[prayingforbundleofjoy]

i had my doctores appt today but the lab neglected to do half the tests so i still dont know for sure if i am or am not pregnant all of my othere tests came back normal which is good i guess and i still havent had my period so know i am on CD89 and counting

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
If your pregnancy tests have been negative, it is likely that you are not pregnant!  Unfortunately.  If you were my patient, I would start an infertility work up.  MOST healthy couples will conceive within a year.  
I would do an FSH, thyroid tests, prolactin and progesterone levels.  
If your pregnancy test is negative, I would give you progesterone to start your period, and then Femara (or Clomid) to help you ovulate more regularly.  
Your husband should probably also have a sperm count done, if he is willing.
Good luck!
Dr B

[kfer25]

Hi!

Hope you get a positive result but if you don't, do not get discouraged keep on trying.  Please let us know what the results are... Best of luck!!!!