can't take anymore

[parkersmommy]

I think this pregnancy has ended my marriage. We fight constantly and he just keeps telling me that my being pregnant means nothing to him. He makes me cry everyday and I am honestly starting to seriously think about giving this baby up for adoption because I don't want to be stuck with him forever.

[Heatherm4]

Oh that's so terrible for someone to say, especially the father. You will love your baby no matter what though. Don't think of your baby as a burden. Duggy was right- you are doing something amazing and maybe you should try to figure out what DH's problem is. It takes 2 to make that baby- so where has this attitude came from. Counceling could help you and if he agreed to go, it would be a bonus.

[parkersmommy]

This isn't the kind of thing marriage counseling will help. I have lost my entire family (they literally don't even know I'm pregnant at 20 weeks because I don't speak to any of them) because I have stood by him through every horrible decision he's made through every bad thing he's ever done to me and through the majority of our relationship even now I have been the only one working. Marriage counseling can't make me love him any less or make him love me any more and I am just so sick of crying over a man that doesn't even love me and I hate that I am starting to feel like this baby is the reason I'll be stuck with him forever

[jenjenN86]

Have you thought about marriage counseling? It  really does help :)

[duggy57]

I am in the same boat. I have even started going therapy. It hurts at Dr apps and ur the only one there who's husband is not there to support you. Or does not ask how it went. We just have to remember we are having a baby which is very important. They way are husbands are acting are their problem. We did not do anything wrong. what we are doing is amazing.

[angel_0712]

I'm sorry to hear you going through this. I'm going to b praying for you, and yes things will get better. I think your baby is a blessing to you, and Satan wants to destroy that! Don't let him. He comes to kill, steal and destroy!