conception

[lovleyme]

Okay im not to sure who my babys dad is,,  so my due date is August 12 and i tried all the conception calenders on google an they al say i got pregnant Nov. 20 which makes sence becuz zi did have sex that day but i also had sex 10 days before that with someone else how can i kno forsure who is the farther, clueless becuz the OB doctor goes by my last day of my period.

[MamaBear0612]

You count back 38, the first two weeks of pregnancy is before conception...just remember that sperm can live inside us 5-7 days so whatever date you figure out, it's still better if you get that DNA test because you could still be wrong.  Hope this website helps a little...I love it, just replace my due date with yours:

http://www.pregnology.com/faralong.php?month=6&day=12&year=2012

[lovleyme]

Thank you guys for your answers an yess ive only had one ultrasound  an from that i am 26 weeks i will be 27 next week so i did count back from that an it came out to be the first guy i had sex with im soo confused i think im more confused on if i should count 40 weeks or 38? I will get a DNA test but not right away for im scared to even know muself but thanx ill also try that app you have mentioned.

[Nikki0682]

I know u tried the Google calendar but heck out the My Days app.  It is very thorough.  Also, I would guess the 2nd guy on the 20th.  It can tell u if u were even fertile or ovulating 10 days beforehand.  I am due Sept 12 and know for a fact I conceived dec 25.  

[MamaBear0612]

It just occurred to me with an August due date you're pretty far along. When was your first ultrasound, and what was the due date they gave you from it?

[aclark42001]

I would guess the 2nd guy, I am 1 month behind you, my dates are due sept 13 and conceived December 24, but they are jus guesses

[MamaBear0612]

Have you had or will you have an ultrasound soon? If so that would really help you narrow it down, early ultrasounds are pretty accurate, a lot more accurate than just estimating from your last period. Not every woman ovulates at the same time, and they assume you do when they give you that initial date.

[AnnieBrooke]

I'd go with the notion that it was the person you had sex with on the 20th.  Ten days before is just a few days too far beforehand, for it to be that other person.  For the sake of your child, you need a DNA test once the baby is born, to be sure.