early thought about a baby shower )):

[newmommy1823]

recently I moved to salem oregon with my mom step dad little brother and bf... I'm only 18 w and 4 but I know no one up here and my family is to far to travel so no one will be at my baby shower when I have one.. his family says they'll send presents but I'm still sad.. I know it's selfish of me but I really want more than four people to be there for me during one of the most important days of my life.... :(((((

[altmorena]

I'm with you!!! I moved about a year ago and I have made friends but still family is family, I live in Dallas but I'm from el paso tx, 11 hours driving, so I guess I'm going to talk to them about how we can do this, flying, driving or idk??

[newmommy1823]

I've been living here for about a week and really havnt had the chance to make friends...

[Daniellerene]

Your only 18 weeks hun ... Maybe if you try and talk your friends into flying your way for the shower they will , if you give them a head of time notice and see if you can find cheap flights cause if they buy tickets early it's cheaper  .. and how long have you lived in your city? ... have you tryed making new friends there ? ...