emotional wreck..

[lupeezy0609]

Hi im i just moved from NC back home to Sacramento, ca. I was engaged and in an off and on relationship with my bf whos in the airforce. I have a son by someone else and a second one on the way ...im 13 weeks and he wanted to abort the baby. He decided he wasnt ready "for a family" after he found out he was being deployed to korea next month. Smh. He acted supportive til i got here and now he "wants space" ...i dropped everything for him  after he convinced me to move out to nc .. he sent me back once already n then said he was srry n for me to go bk. So ive moved twice back n forth. I feel done with b.s i need some friends  who will positively motivate me . Im too depressed. :/

[lupeezy0609]

Ugh .. thats irritating. Its the worst to go through these relationship problems while your pregnant

[yayykrystina1]

Girll I feel your pain, I live in fl, me and my bf weren't doing good so I moved to Indiana 6 months later he moves me back. I get back he cheats on me. Guys are dumb as f*ck

[tiarose92]

**** him keep your baby

[lupeezy0609]

Yes hes being deployed to korea for a year. And who knows wat state next for another year and then he'll have a choice to re enlist or get out.

[m_mari]

No its not wrong of you! I'd say go for it. You know what's best for your baby so I'd say get full custody :) I doubt he'll have any leverage because you guys are not married and plus military means he'll be gone right?

[lupeezy0609]

Thnx u guys. Would it be wrong of me to get full custody? He hasnt even been supportive or called me since i been here to even see how things were. Hes military so idk if he has any leverage on me .. but we arent married and i want full custody n child support if he plans on being a douche

[melcarin]

Even tho its his i say screw him. Hes indecisive which means hes immature. If you want this baby you dont need his approval to have it nor do you need him in your life. Plenty of men out there would love to raise a child even if it isnt theirs. I say do whatever makes you happy and dont worry about a guy. The right person will find you. Just think about your baby and what you want and need. Dont let anyone else influence your decisions. You have to deal with the choice you make. They dont.

[m_mari]

Don't let his indecisiveness be the determining factor on whether you are going to keep tour baby. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I wish you the best of luck