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Nobody really understands the pain I go through day after day, I lost my precious snug bug at 10 weeks and its hard....I want to be pregnant again but it hasn't happened yet...I get sad because that baby was my miracle and a blessing....I have no idea how to get through this! !!!!
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I wish you the best of luck getting pregnant i also lost my baby boy Jonathan at 20 weeks in 2011 it was the hardest thing i have ever been true.. but it gets easier but i will never forget my little angel. now i am pregnant again this time a baby girl!! And i am just so happy to be past the 5 months mark as being 5 months scared me :( since thats when i lost my baby last year!!
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I really hope things get better and maybe I will be pregnant soon, had my first period and I have been trying!
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i lost my baby dec. 12 2010.. i was so lost, angry, confused and hurt. i never would have made it without the strength God gave me and my wonderful husband that would just hold me until i cried myself to sleep. Then a few months later my sister and sister in law both found out they were expecting- with the same due dates of DECEMBER 12th.. i thought my heart was going to break in a million pieces. i prayed daily and talked to my sweet angel, and still do. we gave her a name and know that she is definitely going to be waiting on us when we get to heaven. It took a little over a year for me to get pregnant again, and im happy to say im due with a baby boy in september. we are so blessed, and you will be too. dont give up, and the best thing you can do is find someone that understands, like us, and talk to bc men will never ever ever EVER understand no matter how much they want to and try to, and women who havent been through it have no idea in hell the pain that losing your child causes. It will all eventually get easier and you will come to understand it more, but for now...talk when you feel like it, cry when you want to and post as many topics in the forums as you want. LOTS of love and prayers coming your way!
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I loss my Baby Aidan at 21week last Jan 15 due to umbilical cord get twisted so i felt u.. worst to say he is my 5th pregnancy but the longest ever.. i m/c the other 4 at 10 to 12 weeks and been thru twice d&c and twice natural with help of medication.. trust me you are not alone... get yourself back to shape before consider again... good luck dear..

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I'm sorry to hear:-( October 2010 I lost a child at 18 weeks, it was the hardest thing I've been though, I have a son who's 13 that I had at age 16 and he was so excited to be a big brother it broke my heart. Until you are ok and can accept the loss wasn't anything you could do about your body wont relax, I thought I would never get pregnant again, we went on vacation to Cuba in December 2011 and conceived our baby girl due in Sept. I know it's hard to let go, but to help your body cope, you can't stress, good luck in the future:-)))
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Ill pray for u
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I lost a baby between 12-13 weeks. I am so sorry for Ur loss and I felt the same way. After, I tried so hard to get pregnant and 14 months later I had my son. While Ur dealing w Ur loss nothing can make or seem better n once u get pregnant u will be so precautious. I hope u get pregnant soon but need to accept certain things are out of our control n stress will only make getting pregnant much more difficult. I found comfort in an online support group of woman who experienced similar loss. Best of luck. U will be in my prayers and one day this will only make u stronger and more grateful for what u have!
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I'm sorry for your loss. It will never be the same o am sorry to say but u will always think of ur little angle. And yes u will get preg again just give it time. My body took 1 yr and a half to get pregnant again I was so depressed I stoped ovulting but not every one is the same I know people who get pregers 3 months after they loose their little angles everyone is diffrent. Just give ur body time to heal. I was bleeding for 4 months as my body thought I was still pregnant and my hormones were off. It gets a little bit easier not a whole lot but its ur baby so the little angle is always going to be s part of you. I still cry over mine but with find u will accept it and understand they came to us for s reason. But no matter if u get pregers againg u will always want ur first baby also with ur second. I wish you the best and may God bless you and I sn sure ur little angle watched over his mommy.
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Im sorry. I couldnt imagine what you are going thru. And its hard to really know what to say. People that havent been thru it dont know what it feels like or know how you feel! But its never easy for anyone. My mom had 2 miscarriages before I was born and she still thinks about those babies. Its gotten easier for her but the thought is always there. Same with you. The thought will always be there about that baby that you had and you will always remember it. The only thing you can do is take it 1 day at a time. But trust that you will get pregnant again in the perfect timing!!!
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Its been a month I wonder will I ever get pregnant again or how to deal with it!!!
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