Just asking

[TreishaM]

So I graduated on May 22 @7p.m so does my boyfriend ( baby father) brother. We go to two different schools like 30 minutes away. I want him at my graduation, plus I'm going to 37 weeks turning 38 the following Monday. His brother also wants him at his graduation. Should I tell him to go to his brother's graduation?

[Summergrace8]

Tell him to flip a coin do it's fair (:

[TreishaM]

I am allowing him to decide. They just became close when we started to date because before his brother wouldn't be around him. I agree with her as well, I told him to go to his brother's but he said that he would rather not go to either one because he can't make that decision on which one to go to.

[specialmom]

I also agree that it is best to leave the decision up to him.  It's a hard one.  Two places to be at the same time.  I would allow him to decide where to go and don't get mad either way.  At his brothers, he has  his family to sit with, at yours, you'll be with your class to get your diploma and he'll be in the audience.  Anyway, let him decide and just be happy for your day and not get upset over his choice.  good luck hon and congrats on the graduation!!  Great job!!

[tiffanya2015]

I mean I agree with Lauren lol

[tiffanya2015]

I agree with Treisha. I wouldn't want my husband to miss his brothers graduation, even if it meant missing mine.

[LaurenC86]

I think it should be up to him. But I definitely don't think you should feel bad or make him feel guilty if he chooses his brother. I personally would tell my bf to go to his brothers if I was in that situation just so he wouldn't feel awkward or guilty about deciding, especially if him and his brother are close. And at least he'll be there for the birth, that's what really counts in my opinion.

[Elixy128]

he should be with u your his new family.He should put u and ur chid first not his brother

[Nytaee]

But once graduation starts , don't they lock the doors? They do here in NC. So no one can enter once it starts. Either one he goes to , it shouldn't mean he loves one of y'all less than the other. As long as he is still there to celebrate both of yall's accomplishment together afterwards.

[amandacm154]

Lol do you guys have last names far apart?? He should go to the one who will be called first then right after they get called go to the next. Haha

[stephaniexoa]

Noooo. And if he does thats messed up! I wouldn't want my man to miss out something big and important in my life he shouldn't wanna be away from that experience as well.