help im so confused can i b preg

[ash12507]

ok  i havnt been on birthcontrol for about 6months bt me n my feiance been using the pull out method cus its not a big deal if i get preg bt we not actually tryin rt now bt im so confused. my period is usually normal in july and b4 it was normal then aug it was a couple days late and only bout 6 or 7 days and it usually bout 10 days bt normal flow then sept it was bout 2 weeks late and a little light and only about 5 days so i took 3 test at different times thru the month and they all said neg and during the past month or mb a lil lnger i been gettin sick at night and sometimes after i eat and i swear the past few days i feel something movin n my lower stomach like right above my pelvic bone on the rt side and sometimes center its hard to explain wat it feels like bt its not all the time n prolly tha past 3 months or so ive had bad headaches and i usually dnt get them n when i do they usually aint bad n ive even got a lil dizzy a couple times when ive stood up and ive been wanting to sleep all the time and been havin lwer bck pain n slight cramps bt the cramps have pertty much gone away now bt i usually dnt get cramps bt i though it might have been cus of school bt then i started havin the other symptoms so i decided to take the test and they all said neg bt im so confused. can i be preg even tho the test showed neg? then the smornin i took another one bt i was unsure about the results becaus it wasnt a clear 2 line it was like one wide line n the edges of it was faint im so confused and i no u have to be atleast like 12 weeks or so to feel a baby and some as late as 26 weeks and every preg is different bt my period was different the past 2 months and its always been normal even when i wasnt on the pill and it was reg up untill the past 2 months and i have a family history of the women havin periods the 1st few months they was preg and a few was even like 6 n 7 months that they had them and they had no symptoms till late n the pregnancy. im so confused any comments / oppinons / help will be greatly appriciated thanx  

[ash12507]

yea thank you so much i jus have been really confused cause im usually so normal and i have been having things go on that has never went on befor bt yes im goin to wait a week n take another one an ur right it seems like forever waiting im so ready to find out bt after i got the 3 neg and was unsure about the last one i think im not bt im still having symptoms and i still havent started this month so imma wait bout another week and see  ill let yall no also my fi. been sayin hes craving reeses i was makin fun of him cus i never heard of that bt i asked some people and its pertty commin for the dad to get the cravings insted of the mom it was actually one of his friends that said thas y he was so mb i am atleast were hopin also thank yo rosa22 ur right it would b a major blessing and it jus made me a lil nervous tho cus its on both sides for both of us and we jus wasnt sure if it the pill made it more likely bc ive had some people tell me that and i was jus wntin some other oppions so thak all of u for everything

[VRM22]

Hey I dont know if this will be much help. I find clear blue digital is very reliable test. But that is not what i was going to tell you. I am now 6 months pregnant. I ovulate late but my period is a 28day cycle. Drives you crazy when your trying or first finding out your pregnant let me tell you. This is my first pregnancy.. so 28 day cycle would make you think i ovulated 2 weeks before. I did not. I found out I was pregnant a week and a half to almost 2 weeks after i missed my period. I tested negative several times.. finally got a positive then about a week later I started bleeding(they say implantation bleeding is light, yeah right) I had blood everywhere it was real bad when it started but ended fast and only was about 2 days long. I had a miscarrage before so they scheduled me for a ultrasound. in the ultrasound i should have been 7 weeks due to my missed period which they use, so i should have saw a heartbeat, but i wasnt showing that i was only showing 3-5 weeks. so the doctor asked when i tested pregnant and told me i had to come back in 2 weeks to see if the pregnancy was viable or not. That was a long 2 weeks. but thankfully it was fine, saw the baby's heart beat and have been good since. I had no pregnancy symptoms. I never gained weight. I did not gain weight or start to show until 2 weeks ago. So..  in short
I agree with Rosa20 You may be pregnant I dont think you would be 11weeks. At 11weeks your HCG level would be way elevated and actually after so many weeks HCG levels dont matter anymore because they level off and decrease I want to say around 8 weeks.  So you may be now. I would wait about another week and test again. Who knows. I was to the point where i thought i couldnt be cause it was a week and a half of negatives.

[Rosa20]

im on number three and it runs in both sides of our family...so far i have only had singles and i was the next generation that was supposed to have them too! lol...I dont think coming off the pill has anything to do with it either although two would def be a blessing! :)

[ash12507]

o yea i actually did have one other question is it more likely to have multiples commin off the pill specially when they are in your genes

[ash12507]

k thanx ill let yall no i find somthing out thank u so much for ur help

[Rosa20]

No problem and were here for anymore questions you have to ask!! :)

[ash12507]

yea thank u so much u really have been alot of help

[Rosa20]

well i truly think you would only be about 3-4 weeks so wait and test again in a week in af dont show and if still neg go get a beta done!! ANd of course you have someone..you have us and we are great!! :) lol

[ash12507]

i took 2 clear blue and 2 ept bt like i said i am completely new to all of this and i have nobdy

[Rosa20]

i dont think you would be 11 weeks,,,,i think you could be newly pregnant,,,the fact was you had spotting for five days in sept and thats usually to long for implantation bleeding if i recall its only supposed to be slight spotting for two days max?!! SO if you are newly pregnant that yes your levels can still be low..too low for some test to pick up!! I would take a frer! What were the brand test you took!!

[ash12507]

or is it poss to b preg and get a neg test through out the pregnancy im so confused adn i really appriciate nething any bdy has to say

[ash12507]

bt is it poss to b like 11 weeks  and the hcg levels still b to low for the test to show  cus that dont seem right bt i really have no clue ive never been preg b4 n i really dnt have nebdy i can talk to rt now cus i dont want alot of people to know till i no for sure

[spade22]

Its possible you are pregnant and tested too early.  You could either test again in a week or have a blood test.

[ash12507]

i realize its not really a form of birthcontrol thas y i said its not a big deal if i get preg n as ive said iv taken 4 test bt was unsure about the results i was wounderin wit all thas goin on is it poss im preg and the test show neg

[spade22]

The pull out method is not a form of birth control.  You can take a HPT or have blood drawn to determine if you are pregnant.

[ash12507]

ive taken 4 tests 2 was digital and 2 was the line kind the digital said neg i took them bout a month ago the the other one bout a week or 2 later then the other one today and the ones with lines im not sure if it has a faint line or not  the line is really wide n ive seen them neg b4 and the line isnt wide and when it pos the 2 lines are usually separated thas y im so confused.

[bossetina]

the only way to no if you can take a test and you will see